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33 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:57am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from med school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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OOT until mid Oct
I'm a confident, driven, straight talker. Thankfully the brashness is balanced by a bit of Midwestern modesty.

Not one for banal banter. In fact, I can be downright laconic, but I love in-depth conversation. What can I say? I'm a liberal arts guy who is most at home sharing food and wine with friends. But when I'm not, I'm out doing things.

My run down of conundrums:
I'm very independent, but I like to share. I cook but don't use recipes. I'm an introvert, but I like people. I'm analytical, but I'm passionate about being analytical. I'm spontaneous, but I'm a great planner. I write dialog well but not prose. I love the city and the country. I'm lighthearted and responsible, intense and playful. I'm as comfortable hiking off trail as I am traipsing around an art show. Last I checked OKC's personality robot thinks I'm one the most ill-mannered and least old fashioned man on the planet, because I don't judge other lifestyles and have a thing for iconoclasts. OK, well maybe I am! But I believe in good ole' self respect, at least lookin' put together, and common courtesy (You can thank my Grandparents for that!). So all this means I'm rather irreverent.

Oh, and I guess people list these things: INTP though the N is pretty soft. I'm not just a thinker, I'm a doer.

And if this were a Bruce Springsteen song, he'd be looking for spark plugs. A firecracker. Whip smart, natural, self aware, well-read, warm, open and appreciates my sense of irony. A partner perhaps.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Learning, growing, adapting.

Actually I'm a physician. Not that I'm bragging, but it just happens to be the truth. Honestly, most of physicians are pretty boring. That being said, I absolutely love my job and actually dropped out of art school to do this, and I haven't a single regret.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Working with my hands
Winning over other people's pets
Makin' fun of myself
Editing film
Finding humor in all situations
Knowing my cardinal directions
Cocktail parties
Overcoming (it's a skill)
Playin' hooky
Guessing where wines are from (esp. Pinot)
Thinking for myself
Baking pies
Whippin' up sauces
Infusing liquors
And the like
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My wry smile and colorful language. A hefty dose of sardonic wit and a bit of expertise in esoterica.

Oh and that I actually make my own bed and have good posture. I know, what are the odds?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Not that these choices are a matter of morality...
Literature: Twain, Hemingway, Sedaris, Cormac McCarthy. Catch-22. Sub-Saharan African Authors. Raymond Carver's Shorts. I'm not allowed to list Lolita here ('cause that's creepy), but if I could I would. Right now I'm reading In Between the Sheets by Ian McEwen.
Non-fiction: Wendell Berry, books on wine making

Comedians: Hicks, Louis CK, Carlin, Maron, Stewart, Larry David, Albert Brooks.

Directors: Kubrick, Malick, Buster Keaton, Tarkovsky, Wes or PT Anderson. Lately, Billy Wilder.

Food: Yes. Very passionate about food. Though I try to limit my carnivorous tendencies to happy animals.

Music: Everything...OK, everything except death metal. But esp, The Boss, Bowie, Townes van Zandt, Wilco, Waits, Gillian Welch, New Order, Tame Impala, Damien Jurado, Suicide, The Replacements, Hüsker Dü, Tom Petty, Zepplin, Fennesz, Sam Cooke.

And like everyone else: True Detective, Radiohead, NPR, Radiolab, etc
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Conversation with people who know something about something
2) Wine
3) Family
4) Mountains
5) Thinking
6) Exploring
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be better at whatever I'm doing
My little niece and nephew
Wine (again)
And probably in that order
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either out with friends or drinking wine or both.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't generally dance. But if you play Annie's Anniemal just watch out!

And sometimes I wonder if I'm Atticus Finch, Jon Cassavettes, and Woody Allen's manchild and under what fictitious scenario they would have met...I think I've said too much...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.'re outgoing and affectionate; compassionate with those less fortunate; you aren't easily offended and can hold your own in an intellectual discussion; you appreciate art, nature, and a great glass of wine. Oh, and a cute smile never hurt anyone, but you could try.