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45 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 35–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Today – 7:02pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Self-aware. Fully grounded, no airy-fairy, anti-stupidity. Kind. Nurturing. Thoughtful. Possibly humorous. Possibly in the way I intend.

I grew up out east on LI. University of Maryland for undergrad. Northern California for chiropractic school. Ended up staying for 20 years. SF/Oakland is an amazing place to live.

During those 20 years out west I spent a couple of years living in Mexico, over a number of different 3-4 month stays. Mostly in Guanajuato, and on a beach in Nayarit in a small fishing village. In a tent on that beach. For months. I adjusted a local family with a tin roof restaurant for food daily and went to bed and woke to the sound of the Pacific. It was idyllic and not idyllic at all.

Back in Oakland, I spent a couple of years dedicated to a monk-like existence. Hours of sitting still, doing nothing each day. Raw food lifestyle. To say things got deep doesn't do that time in my life justice. That was many, many years ago. Great experience, certainly informs how I see the world today.

Relocated back to NY in January full time. Living in Grammercy. Another interesting chapter thus far. I have practices on both coasts and am looking at a venture in Texas, so I travel a bit to interesting (not freezing) places on the regular.
I’m really good at
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A bunch of things, though to be fair (I'm a fan of fairness and justice), I likely am not really good at a lot of things, too.

On the plus side, I'm really good at my work. I fix people's bodies with my hands. And my brain. If were independently wealthy I would do it for free.

Over the past couple of years I have been learning to teach what I know to young docs and other health care professionals. I think teaching will dominate the next half of my life.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Clooney? Pitt? Gosling? People regularly confuse me for all three...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Jane's Addiction, Jill Scott, Duke Ellington, Hall and Oates, Stones, Tribe, White Stripes, Miles, the Smiths, Prince, Pete Rock and CL Smooth, Soundgarden, Ozzy, The Roots.

TV: What I wouldn't do for another season of House of Cards right about now. Same for Orange is the New Black (go Netflix!). Californication is a stupid show that makes me laugh. Seinfeld. Comedians in Cars Getting Coffee. 30 Rock. It's Always Sunny. Key and Peele. Sports: Baseball, Soccer, Basketball and sometimes Tennis.

Movies: Yes. Going to the movies is one of life's great pleasures. Recently I've seen Boyhood, The Skeleton Twins, and today I'm heading out to see This Is Where I Leave You.

Books: I'm a streaky reader. Right now I'm juggling Oliver Sacks' "The Mind's Eye" with "How Music Works" and "The New Jim Crow."

Food: Let's go eat. Pick a cuisine, I'm generally in. But for zeus' sake why is Chinese food so poisonous in this city? Every time I eat it here I get sick.

Drink: Tequila. To sip. Same with bourbon but not nearly to the same degree. Red wine. Good beer. At least one Americano a day.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Something else, probably

I've done without. It didn't kill me.
You should message me if
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You see the glass as half full. You're smart, thoughtful, witty, relaxed, nurturing and smile easily. You also call bullshit just as soon as it's scent hits the air.