I moved to the Bay Area a few years ago with the intent to put down roots and thrive. I'm very happy to say that I have! I love my partners and I love my life.
I'm fully devoted to my son. I'm also devoted to my long-term committed relationships. I try to see them as equal and of top importance. In poly parlance, they're two co-primaries and one self-defined secondary. Where that leaves me is with the desire for one or two possible secondary type relationships, where the connection isn't driven to be *all it can be* and more like a light / casual / normal relationship.
I can be classed as liberal, but I have a high respect for self-reliance and self-responsibility, and a low tolerance for bullshit. Is it possible to be a traditionalist bi poly Jewish-humanist geek slut?
I am extroverted, quirky, and cute