Up front, I'm technically married, separated, and undergoing a slow yet amicable divorce. I'm also receiving an LDR and a couple of very good friends who will be moving here soon. For practical purposes you can think of me as a single dad, laughing. (Yes, I stole that)
I'm very poly. Count me among the bi poly geeks. I love making new connections. I'm a Latino male in my early 40's, and I have interests in languages, Japanese, Hebrew, Spanish, Italian, French), and Jewish culture.
I moved to the Bay Area in 2006 with the intent to put down roots and thrive. I'm very happy to say that I have! I love my partners and I love my life.
I'm fully devoted to my son. I'm also devoted to my long-term committed relationships. I try to see them as equal and of top importance. I have a partner whom I've been with for more than a decade and is an LDR, and another I've been with for nearly a decade who is LDR-ish (150 klicks). I could do with home with a woman who *might* want a baby but that's not required, I'm not even entirely sure that's what I need. I run life as it goes. Blues riff in B, watch me for the changes... and try to keep up
I can be classed as liberal, but I have a high respect for self-reliance and self-responsibility, and a low tolerance for bullshit. Humanistic / Atheistic Judaism. My specific brand of Judaism trends MUCH less in the direction of invoking Hashem and MUCH more toward justice in this world and tikkun olam.
Yeah, I work in metric sometimes so I'm a little thrilled that the weight loss régime seems to be trending me to what I want, at a pace that if I can keep up will land me back by the end of the year at 1.68m and 68kg. As of January 2015 85kg, I'm presently plateaued right at 71. If I hit 68 again, I'm throwing a party and you are totally invited.
Other things to know: I can be a somewhat extreme pacifist. Wanna fight about it? (Yeah, that is a joke about inherent contradiction on purpose *giggles*) I curse extremely sparingly, I used to drink like a Frenchman but I'm teetotalling until New Year's so I can heal the way I should, and I will try to know least one word in any language you can name.
I keep my bedroom a bit more cold than most of my partners prefer. It seems 18ºC seems to be the magic number for me to sleep. If you're ever here... um... sorry. *giving you a blanket*
I am extroverted, quirky, and cute.