I am a single, motivated, psychotherapist, doctoral student and
small business owner. I am fit, healthy, active, optimistic, family
oriented, happy, dog lover, builder, love scifi books and movies,
motorcycle rides, travel, camping, dark chocolate, Spanish red
wine, and music (playing and listening).
What I’m doing with my life
Living all the adventures I can, traveling to Spain often, being
family oriented. Since I am self employed, I have a very flexible
schedule to travel and find new adventures. I am patiently looking
for that special yin, feminine, intelligent, sensual, loving woman
between the ages of 44 and 54 to share our adventures together.
I’m really good at
Martial arts, negotiating/mediation, listening, speaking, writing,
music (playing drums and blues harmonica), psychotherapy, hypnosis,
building, motorcycle riding, meditation and spontaneous adventure,
being a gentleman, staying calm, being funny, laughing, smiling,
teaching, languages, being a great dad, and kissing.
The first things people usually notice about me
Hmmm, maybe that I look fit, healthy, Mediterranean and younger
than my chronological age, my eyes, my sense of humor., and that I
smile a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
scifi/fantasy books, Don Miguel Ruiz, The Secret, 100's more,
scifi/fantasy/adventure movies,R&B, jazz, blues, rock and roll,
latin, piano music, mediterranean, mexican, Indian, vegetarian,
Filipino, foods that do not include meat (except fowl, and
seafood). I also make a killer paella and flan.
The six things I could never do without
A beautiful and loving companion, decaf soy/almond mocha, dark
chocolate, music, my family, my friends, science fiction, martial
arts,true love, my beagle...ok that's 10, but I dislike
I spend a lot of time thinking about
spiritual ponderings, choosing the right path/partner, family
gatherings, motorcycle rides, adventure/travel planning, time and
space, quantum physics, deoxyribonucleic acid, psychology, martial
arts, my beagle, clam chowder at Mo's, elephant ears at Saturday
Market, who I will spend the rest of my life with.
On a typical Friday night I am
listening to live music, quiet fire at home, out to dinner,
visiting friends, watching a movie, reading, soaking in my hot tub.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have dedicated my life to the study of Martial Arts and exploring
my roots in Spain and that I believe in love. Also, I DON'T SNORE.
Hopefully you don't either. The rest can wait until we know each
You should message me if
My profile truly resonates with you. Time is so precious that I am
not interested in multiple single dates. If you think we may match
in a very special way and you would like to meet for coffee or a
glass of wine/beer. Also, only if you have been honest about your
age. A big bonus if you have long hair, enjoy being a feminine
woman and have a sense of adventure. I answer all messages. I hope
to hear from you soon.