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45 New York, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 12
Middle Eastern, White
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Ph.D program
Seeing Someone
Strictly monogamous
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Chinese (Poorly), Hindi (Okay), Urdu (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm English born, a product of empire, originally from London. Been living in NYC for over three years now. New York is an incredible city. Amazing energy, diversity of people. You can be anything you want to be (of course depending upon your budget). I would like to think I'm kind, honest, loyal, affectionate. I'm also quite masculine. Living here requires me to try and balance being focused with being open to the chances around me - not easy.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Umm, what can I say... I'm an architect now studying once more. I've travelled and lived in a number of places, the most recent being Hong Kong.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Providing friends with their own life theories. It can get annoying.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile that's sometimes a silly grin, and my salt and pepper hair. Oh, and my youthful appearance. Thanks spliced genes!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Way too many. Ask me. I mostly read non-fiction these days. Though I have been into writers like Garcia Marquez, Borges, Huysmans, Hesse, Canetti, and such like. Can't deny to still have a lingering love for Tolkien and have read all my Harry Potters. (There, I admitted it). Love movies, again too many to name. Theater, opera, jazz, early music, classical, some Broadway recently (much to my surprise).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
That's a tough one... family, oxygen, love, good food, nice friends, music ... how can you have a world without music!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I'm doing wrong on Okcupid.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Never a typical friday ... go out when possible, or have work to finish. sometimes the weekends blur with the weekdays. If I'm with someone, all that matters is that I am with that person - we can do anything.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not on Facebook. Yikes!
You should message me if
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- You are interested in me
- Not interested in me, but have the decency to answer a message sent
- Not decent, but feel pressured to reply
- Not pressured, but find you have nothing better to do