Once, after a long weekend retreat I was told by a college professor of mine that I completely break every stereotype that I fit into. I felt totally seen by her in that moment.
I enjoy experimenting with life. I've gone into plenty of situations and afterwards said "wow, that bit me in the ass". Hasn't slowed me down much. A lot of things have turned out quite nicely after an initial gluteal nibble. I'm hungry for experience.
I wish to be, not buy my symbols. I think people purchase the symbols they want to embody. I would rather do the work to embody them and save my money. I don't want to buy a Ferrari. I want to literally be raw power, sex appeal and finesse. Then I'll buy one.
I like women who notice the things that I don't notice. This might be my biggest turn-on.
Recovering "nice guy". Now a "real guy".
Song of the moment (changes regularly, stay tuned): http://vimeo.com/miguelunlimited/archandpoint
And, of course, I find Nicole's 8 Reflections on Intimacy to work well as a guide...
I have the viewpoint that we would all do well to advertise ourselves honestly on OKCupid. That way the right people can actually find us.
I am interested in learning from women and I'm willing to be trained to handle you the way you want to be handled. It's like a game. Are you willing to help make me smart and ask for what you want?