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28 Saint Paul, MN Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 26–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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my name's Elise! I'm living in the northern burbs - wom wom wom. I miss living in the city but I'm here for now and I'm trying to make the most of it. I'm a very good natured easy going person. I would say I'm "out doorsy" but this winter business is crazy. I'm an Art Teacher - which takes a lot of devotion and time, as most careers but I usually come home sapped. My recharge time is crucial. Cooking, reading, fresh air, pod casts all do the trick. I love being surrounded by people but I'm also pretty independent. I'm big on family - I'm the only girl with 3 brothers and we're all pretty close.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to make positive impact. Also trying to focus on what I want - being a teacher all day, sometimes I forget about that.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being patient and calm in most scenarios. I'm great at starting a book and never finishing it. I can make the best chocolate chip cookies ever and problem solving is my jam.

I'm sharpening my cooking skills one recipe at a time and dogs and children love me…. most of the time.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My huge feet.

just kidding, that gets noticed later. But seriously, I'd say my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - The Secret Life of Bees, All the Light We Cannot See, City of Thieves, also post-apocalyptic books.

Movies - I love documentaries, Bill Murray, and female comedians.

Music - 89.3 the current, 80's music, 90's - 00 hip hop. A little bit of everything.

Food: Spicy :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. A tribe (family, friends, etc.)
2. A lot of grace
3. Ambitions
4. The Arts
5. Choice
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What's happening Friday night? What's my niece up to? I want a dog. Would this be good with peanut butter?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It's pretty much a 50/50 split these days - I'm either out getting brews with friends or mellowing out at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Relationships freak me out! But hey, I'm trying to get over that.
You should message me if
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You're a good guy who's confident, mature yet child-like, likes to learn, is very caring, and currently living a very full life.