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45 F Gastonia, NC

My Details

Last Online
May 25
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am starting to wonder if there are any decent men left in the world. Doesn't ANYBODY want a woman for anything more than how willing she is to sleep with you? and why on earth would you even want that kind of chick..nothing but trouble, I tell ya..
I just broke up with a man I thought was for life, not only a lover but my best friend. Turns out however, he can't keep ...himself...out of others...and I am NOT a toy. I am NOT an option. I am an honest woman with many gifts to give.
I deserve my OWN man, not one I have to share. I wish somebody could appreciate that.
I like to think of myself as a diamond in the rough, who just needs someone to polish me to make me shine.
I want a man, not a boy. Somebody with integrity.
Does that even exist anymore, or is it a lost cause?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
studying fulltime, yes at 43, working towards a degree in English with a focus of creative writing. but by FAR am I a book nerd..but give me pen or a keyboard and I am in my element..
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
telling you what I think and how I really feel..
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my eyes, my ass, my honesty. hahaha..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love a good horror story to read, crime drama is my favorite on TV, movies, think along the lines of The Shawshank Redemption, or anything by Tyler Perry... I know, big contrast, huh.
food..I am really basic..low carb, high protein, and I am good.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my dog,
my computer,
pretty underwear,
my phone,(cell or landline, who cares which)
my friends
something to write with.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
when and where God is going to deliever the RIGHT man for me. I'm tired of losers only interested in my ass. Give me a man who stands for something and has something to say worth listening to.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
usually at home, as I am too old for the club scene. sometimes out with friends, but it better be worth my time or I'd rather stay in and watch TV.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
2 things.
1. I like to watch WWE wrestling..old habit picked up by watching with my granddaddy.
2. I have had RNY gastric bypass surgery and have lost 271 pounds.
how's that for private.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you're a decent guy, with your own life, no wife, no girl on the side. I am sick to death of being one of many. I am not an option. I am a PRIORITY...
so treat me like one.
also, please note.
I prefer to socialize with TALL African American men. If this is not you.. don't be offended.
not everybody likes the same thing. I'm sure you're a nice guy. I have my preferences, just like you do. I'm just trying to save you some time.
My husband of 15 years was white, so no, I am not all. but my truest love.. my first last love.. was a beautiful black man. He is and always will be my best friend, so if that's an issue.. keep it moving. I've known him 30 years longer than I have guess who will win.. every time..