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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–53
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 23
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
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I'm an independent woman who is curious about the world. I have many interests and would like to find a partner who is also curious and enjoys knowing, reading and talking about different topics from science to pop culture. I love to travel and am interested in different languages, foods and customs. As a first generation American, I feel lucky that I have grown up with a broader view of the world and can speak a second language.

I'm earthy, playful and fairly low maintenance. I've been involved in the theatre world for many years and am embarking on a new career as a high school theatre teacher. As much as theatre has maintained my interest for most of my life, I also like to put it to rest and spend time soaking up the sun and playing outside. I like to throw a disc, ride a mountain bike, walk in pretty places, float down rivers, lie in hammocks and get excited over the Spring flowers and trees -especially the tulips and pink dogwoods.

I grew up on NPR and am strangely comforted by it. I am easily seduced by clever word play, still think Seinfeld is one of the funniest shows ever, and am delighted by things whimsical and absurd. I like holding hands.

I have a cat. Her name is Ella.
What I’m doing with my life
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trying to create a high school theatre program that examines life in both a meaningful way and in a carefree, joyful way.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
connecting with lots of different kinds of people
untying complicated knots
throwing a disc (frisbee) - I used to play and coach ultimate (frisbee)
being a good traveling companion
working hard
directing plays
paddling a canoe
popping perfect popcorn
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"warmth and silky hair" - I asked my good friend and that's what he said. I trust him - he's smart and perceptive.. and bald.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Too many...

-Cannery Row; A Christmas Carol, John Irving, Barbara Kingsolver, Anne Lamott
-Oh Brother, Where Art Thou?, Big Fish, Pride and Prejudice (the one with Colin Firth), The Princess Bride, MST3000,
-don't have a working tv so am a bit out of touch on tv shows but I'm working my way through MadMen and I do indulge in Project Runway
-Radio: Wait, Wait Don't Tell Me, Fresh Air, Tiny Desk Concerts (podcast), This American Life
-Paul Simon, John Prine, Lyle Lovett, Van Morrison, Bonnie Raitt, Kimya Dawson, Regina Spector, Bobby McFerrin, Janis Joplin, the Clash, Avett Brothers, Bela Fleck, Louis Armstrong, Johnny Cash, the Police, Mark Knopfler, Prince, etc...
-peanut butter, bread dipped in olive oil, hummus, ice cream sandwiches - Thai, Vietnamese, Meditteranean
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
"All I really need is a song in my heart, food in my belly, love in my family" I have a soft spot for Raffi.

some things: bike, chaco sandals, ipod, earrings, smoothies, laptop, disc
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to be a better teacher, how I can spend a summer in a villa in Tuscany, how to write this profile so that I meet cool men, how to remember to take my own bags to the grocery store
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At my friends' home eating their homemade pizza, rolling around with their baby, drinking wine, and sharing stories.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love the Gourds version of Gin and Juice. My feminist sensibilities find it appalling but my body can't stop moving.
You should message me if
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you are easily interested in lots of things
you are kind and compassionate
you are irreverent
you like kids
you like to build and fix things - specifically, my broken things - just kidding...sort of
you would go on spontaneous adventures
you think the idea of loving and being loved by one woman sounds kinda nice