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32 F Denver, CO

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:10pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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"I travel the world looking for understanding of the times that we live in, hunting and gathering first hand information, challenging definitions of sin. I travel the world looking for lovers of the ultimate beauty, but never settle in. " - Gogol Bordello

I'm a queer woman who is interested in people. Men/women/genderqueer/cis/trans/femme/butch I'm attracted to people for who they are not what they are. I'm largely attracted to other queer people, your stereotypical hetero-dudebro isn't attractive to me.

I love to travel, cook, garden, bike, hike. I know everyone says "travel", but travel is really important to me. My passport is current and I try to leave the country every year or so. I spent most of my youth moving every few years in both the US and UK. As a result, I'm very nomadic. I get the urge to pack up and move quite often. I find that a brief visit somewhere on the other side of the world is a good way to ease the pain of an increasingly mundane adulthood.

I'm a science nerd, particularly environmental science and ecology.
What I’m doing with my life
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A year ago, I moved to Denver from Grand Rapids, Mi. I moved to Michigan from Austin, Tx. I like moving. I do it as frequently as possible.

Working for an environmental company. After almost a decade of trying to figure it out, I've finally found a career that truly makes me happy. It was a long, hard road but I'm glad I took the difficult path to get here.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Anything I put my mind to
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
After meeting me for the first time, someone once told me, "You seem to be almost appalled by non stimulating conversations and simple minded people." I feel that it's a fair assessment.

To be honest, it's probably my curly hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: old science fiction books like 20,000 Leagues Under the Sea and The Time Machine, I also love the short story The Yellow Wallpaper, T.S. Eliot is my favorite poet

TV Shows: I don't really watch TV but I do watch stuff online occasionally... Orange is the New Black, Walking Dead, No Reservations, Dr. Who, Community, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Life on Mars (UK version)
I'm trying to watch Dr. Who from the VERY beginning. I'm in the middle of Tom Baker (fourth Doctor). I can see his appeal, but I miss #3. If you want to join in with me, let me know.

Movie: Independent movies. Asian horror films. I don't like campy, bloody American horror. I like Bollywood. Although, I haven't seen much. Devdas is by far one of the best films I've seen, Bollywood or otherwise. Other favorites are The House of Yes and Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf

Music: Anything really. Cibo Matto, MGMT, Violent Femmes, Tori Amos, Pearl Jam, Tom Waits, Scissor Sisters, Selena (yes Selena Quintanilla, not Selena Gomez) Currently, I'm really geeking on The Dum Dum Girls.

Food: I'm not a picky eater. I love anything spicy or seafood. The only things I DON'T like are peanuts, potato chips, Limburger cheese, and fresh-water fish (brackish water and diadromous fish are ok).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A Sharpie - you never know when you might need to write on something permanently.

That's it. I can't think of anything else. I'm very minimalist.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Who put the "bop" in the "bop shoo bop shoo bop"?

When my profile pops up in someone's match search, does it have a "replies often" or a "replies very selectively" note? Which one am I?

Space and whether or not I'll ever be able to visit it.

Where I'm going next. I really do spend quite a bit of time dwelling on where I should visit, what I'll do while I'm there, and how I'll pay for it.

Why I have so many straight cis-men looking at my profile? I know that technically I'm pansexual, but I'm listed on here as gay. Do cis-men seriously search for lesbians? That's weird. I don't search for gay men. Why? Because they're not interested.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
being awesome. I could be having a drink with friends, fermenting something, out for a walk, cooking an elaborate dinner, or sitting at home reading.

After a year living in Lakewood, I just moved downtown. I'm excited to explore the city a bit more.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I believe intelligence is very important. I have very little tolerance for stupid people. You don't have to be a genius, but above average would be nice.

My washing machine's spin cycle sounds like a spaceship hovering from old sci-fi movies. Every time I do laundry, I have a brief moment of hope that I'm going to have a close encounter.

The more I think about it, the more I kind of hate the term "bisexual". It gives the false impression that my sexuality is dichotomous, as opposed to all inclusive. The word has too much stigma in both the gay and straight communities. I am not a sex kitten incapable of fidelity. I am not a lesbian in training. I am not experimenting. I prefer to identify as queer.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 27–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Nowhere in your profile does it say "I can't fit my personality into a box." Or "Then it wouldn't be private, would it?" That was a creativity test and you just failed.

You don't have a bathroom mirror or duck face photo on your profile.

You aren't a couple. Polyamory isn't my thing.