This site is not working out for me. So rather than continue the way things are I thought I would attempt to change it up a bit. So I thought I might just ramble for a bit about myself completely ignoring these boxes that OKcupid wants me to fill out.

Well for starters I am think I am an alright guy. Obviously not the most amazing guy or I wouldn't be single. But in the end, I think I am decent enough. I do not cheat, no one disgusts me more than a cheater. I couldn't tell you why but its true.

I like to hold someone, text them in the morning, all the little things. I have been told that I don't buy flowers enough. I do think there are worse complaints a girl could have about a guy.

I have the only job I have ever wanted, I make enough money, I have enough friends. Basically I have everything I could want except someone to share it with. So in that sense I am reasonably content. If you were to ask me what my goals in life are, well, I don't really have any anymore. I achieved my goals at a young age.

Most of the time I talk to someone on here the conversation goes good for 6 or 7 emails and then it ends. I couldn't tell you why, but there must be a reason. Not enough pics without my shirt on? It is a possibility, girls seem to complain that guys on here have lots of those, perhaps its a "I don't want to see it, but I really do" kind of thing. Or perhaps its that I am an activist and all though they consider themselves liberal they really mean they think the Democrats will save the day. HA, please. So, it could be that I am to liberal for the liberals and that ends the conversation. I don't push my beliefs on anyone but I guess that maybe people want someone like themselves. I would rather have someone different than me in a relationship. If I wanted to date myself I would buy a 6ft mirror and put it on wheels.

I have a dry sarcastic sense of humor.

I am a vegetarian.

I like to read, I am a Friend of AK Press. If you get books from AK Press than you really should think about doing the friend program.

I paint once in a while.

I like tattoos, but I don't have any. Pesky fear of needles have stopped me, but they are sexy on girls.

I am reasonably intelligent, a terrible speller, caring, passionate, I play golf, watch hockey, watch English soccer, I watch netflix movies.....

A friend of mine who is married told me today while we were in a bar after work that he is glad he isn't single. That he doesn't know how people do it, going to bars and trying to meet the one in that kind of situation. Fuck if I know.

Hiking and camping are fun. I like the outdoors and like spending time with a girlfriend outdoors. Plus, sex in a tent is always a good time.

I work for an environmental non profit.

I have lived in 3 countries but only 2 states.

I have never understood people who care about money.

I also have never understood people who care about cars.

I am fun when I get drunk. But you wont find me on the dance floor no matter how much I drink. My skills only get worse with alcohol.

I have three sports teams that I watch. The Yankees, the Caps and Hull City. So I have one team that is awesome, another that is decent and another that is about as bad as you can get.

I have always wanted to move to Alaska and live in a cabin. Doesn't mean I will, but it is a better fantasy to me than a Island in the South Pacific.

This whole talking to someone for weeks and weeks before meeting for a beer is weird. After a couple of good emails why not just have a drink together. How dangerous can it be really? Everyone goes to bars and talks to strangers anyway. How is that any different?

I have also noticed quite a few girls tell boys not to message them and say "Hey you are hot!". I am ok with girls messaging me and saying that.

I tend to leave OKcupid up on my computer for hours. So just because it says I am here doesn't mean I really am. Your best bet is to message me instead of IMing me.

If you want to talk, or suggest something for me to ramble about feel free to send me a message. I cant guarantee I will respond, but do it anyway, what do you really have to lose.