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elliearroway

28 / F / Straight / Single

Palo Alto, California

Her Details

Last Online
May 17
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and very serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law / Legal Services
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm looking for a Christian man who doesn't want to have children. Are you this rare combination?

I've often been described as a "Renaissance woman." A few tidbits, just to pique your interest: second degree black belt and award-winning ballroom and Latin dancer who plays the cello, acts, and took an entire college course devoted to learning different accents. Ask to hear my Irish, but please don't make fun of my attempts at Brooklyn. You are as apt to find me bench pressing at the gym as dressing up elegantly to attend a benefit dinner... My goal is to bench press my own weight, which means I either need to get stronger or lose 10 pounds! ;)

While I am ambitious, I believe that integrity and compassion are the most important attributes a person can have. I strive to uphold these in my own life and want to meet someone who can inspire me to be a better person, just as I will hopefully inspire him. I am competitive yet not willing to walk over people to achieve my goals.

I love partaking in traditional intellectual discussion -- philosophy, politics, world events, religion, etc. At the same time, I can be quite silly; to the delight of my three sisters, I once composed an "epic poem" dedicated to a stuffed toy... ask me later. Although I definitely consider myself conservative, I try to judge each issue independently.

I am very against pornography, strip clubs, etc. and want to find someone who shares my belief that sexuality is a gift from God to help us bond and enjoy each other, rather than merely cheap entertainment.

If you want children or think you might, please do not contact me. I understand that I am unusual in this respect, but I have considered it carefully for many years and from many angles, and I simply do not want them. No one should have to compromise on an issue this important.

If you desire a multi-faceted, intriguing woman, one about whom you'll discover something new every time we talk, then here I am. Trust me: you won't get bored.
What I’m doing with my life
I am an attorney specializing in intellectual property litigation at a "BigLaw" firm's Silicon Valley office.
I’m really good at
martial arts; making weird animal sounds; ballroom, Latin, and club dancing; public speaking; keeping life exciting; any kind of writing; navigating a wine list; listening; weight lifting; standing up for others (to my own detriment if necessary); eating large portions of meat.
The first things people usually notice about me
My confidence, maturity, and voice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Atlas Shrugged, Memoirs of a Geisha, Contact, Illiberal Education (by conservative scholar Dinesh D'Souza), Outliers

Movies: Aliens, Days of Wine & Roses, The Ten Commandments, American Beauty, Anne of Green Gables, Groundhog Day

TV: Firefly, Lie to Me, The Simpsons, Early Edition, Little House on the Prairie, Dollhouse, and I absolute LOVE 24!

Music: Latin, opera, Pink Floyd, tons of other genres and artists I don't know by name

Foods: steak, raspberries, lobster, Thai, and Indian food. Generally, I like meat. A lot. I really like eating; luckily, I have never much cared for junk food. If you cook, I will be thrilled.
The six things I could never do without
God
My diary (volume XX; I've been keeping them since I was nine)
Nature
Exercise
Literacy
My family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my current case (semiconductor packaging, yay!), which is getting really exciting.

I also wonder about God's plan for me and whether I am truly open to following it, even if it isn't what I want for myself.
On a typical Friday night I am
exercising, then enjoying dinner or wine with a friend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
is that I am very physically affectionate. If there is a way for me to be touching my loved one, I will do it. That means holding hands, hugs, cuddling, etc. I enjoy PDAs.

Oh, and I have a six-pack. No, I won't post a photo--you'll just have to take my word for it.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 25–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you are conservative; you are Christian; you want a moral yet sensual and passionate woman; you are a virgin and/or you respect my decision to remain a virgin until marriage; you are well-educated; you are athletic; you DO NOT WANT CHILDREN.