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ellipsespause

25 / F / Straight / Single

Colorado Springs, Colorado

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:46pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and very serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
As I sit upon this chair, I think of oh, so many things. I think of worlds that are not here – fantasy lands of green and gold and all the stark landscapes of futures untold. I think of philosophy and – here my education shines through – theology and love and dedication and truth.

And after I’ve sat and thought a while, I raise up my head and say to my friend (or type on my computer or scribble in a notebook), “Isn’t it marvelous, this world of ours – and all the other worlds we create in our minds? And incidentally, what do you think of the theory of the absence of the stuff of nothingness, or the relationship between truth and being, and is the universe more chaotic or organized and can it be one and not the other?”

Pleasant though these things are, one cannot live on abstract thought alone. So I cook and I clean and I edit (very well, thank you) and I write and I go to church. And when I can, I dance.

I’m happy to laugh and listen to music and chat and go places and write and play video games and walk.

A few facts:

-- I have a Master of Theology from the University of St Andrews (Scotland).
-- I love science fiction and fantasy.
-- I love dancing.
-- I love swimming. I used to swim competitively.
-- My Myers-Briggs personality type is INTJ. That’s the mastermind personality type. :) Introverted, abstract-thinker (creative), thinking-based-actions, organized. I get along best with E/INFPs, though I find people who are extremely extroverted overwhelming, even when I like them.
-- I’m honest. Sometimes bluntly so. I seldom mean it to be rude, though; I can just be a bit oblivious. But I do have a super-polite-in-formal-situations mode.
-- I tend to be on time.
-- I’m fairly tidy.
-- I’m introverted and can be shy in large groups. I’m not shy one-on-one or in small groups or with people's parents.
-- I’m Christian and won’t date anyone who isn’t.
-- I'm a freelance editor. Know that in any message you send me, I will notice every single typo, usage error, grammatical error, etc. I can't help it. I won't think less of you for a typo or two (if you afford me the same courtesy; I don't always proofread things), but I will notice. You have been warned.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a freelance editor and a fantasy writer.
I’m really good at
Writing, editing, reading, cooking, knitting, singing along to the dishwasher (Little Bunny Foo Foo to the tune of the Imperial March, usually), making tea, making puns, and forgetting people's names.
The first things people usually notice about me
I talk like a book. Oh, and I apparently sound vaguely foreign.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
TV-shows/ movies: Fantasy, science fiction, mysteries. I'm very fond of superhero movies. Star Trek, Farscape, Pushing Daisies, Forever Knight, the X-Files, Sapphire & Steel, Doctor Who, Sherlock, Campion, etc.

Food: Mexican, Thai, Chinese, Italian, Greek, etc.

Escher is probably my favorite artist. I'm also fond of landscape paintings.

Music: I especially enjoy classical, pop, and country. Christian rock is all right, although the quality tends to be low. Musicals and soundtracks are fine. I only like opera when I'm actually watching the opera (which I love to do). I dislike most classic rock, metal, pure rap (i.e., not part of a non-rap song), and Gregorian chants.

I play the flute and can dabble in various other woodwinds and the piano. I also sing to myself -- original compositions or compilations or random songs I know -- as I putter around. I'm on-key, but only a mediocre singer.

Favorite composers:
I like almost all of the great Russian composers: Rachmaninoff, Rimsky-Korsakov, Borodin, Khachaturian, Shostakovich, etc., as well as a few non-Russians, such as Dvořák and Beethoven.

My favorite authors include but are not limited to (in alphabetical order):
K.A. Applegate, Lois McMaster Bujold, Jim Butcher, Susanna Clarke, Neil Gaiman, Frances Hardinge, Shirley Jackson, Diana Wynne Jones, Soren Kierkegaard, C.S. Lewis, Garth Nix, Edgar Allen Poe, Terry Pratchett, J.K. Rowling, Jonathan Stroud, J.R.R. Tolkien, Vivian Vande Velde, Dan Wells
The six things I could never do without
God (since I wouldn't exist). Books. More books. Notebooks. Pens to write in notebooks. My computer.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, the universe, and everything. Oh, and punctuation.
On a typical Friday night I am
at home. Since I freelance, I can choose to go out at other times.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
is that I have private things I'm not willing to post on the internet.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 24–30
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
you want to? You're Christian, not racist, and like sci-fi, fantasy, and philosophy.