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elliptic50

38 / M / straight / Single

Baton Rouge, Louisiana

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
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Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am magnetic, quirky, and autotelic.

My Self-Summary

The Following Phrases Give a Succinct Description:

Stock Trader and Researcher, Amateur Photographer, Writer, Mentor, Discipinarian, Recovering Catholic, and Cunning Linguist :)

Political Agnostic, Conspiracy Theorist, Skeptic, and Humorist.

I am constantly searching for the truth...or a version of it with which I can live comfortably.

What I’m doing with my life

Boldly Seeking Opportunity, And Rising To Every Occasion

Searching For That One Special Lady.

I’m really good at

Traditional life coaching...Listening patiently and attentively to her prevarications, her excuses, and her promises, before placing her firmly over my knee.

The first things people usually notice about me

Attractive and Fit but not Pretty, Enigmatic but not Obscure, Demanding but not Unreasonable, and Intelligent but never Condescending.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: One Hundred Years of Solitude, Ninety Three, Lady Chatterly's Lover,The World as Will and Representation, The Idiot, Steppenwolf, Magister Ludi,The Critique of Pure Reason, Candide, The Construction of Social Reality, On The Genealogy of Morals, War and Peace, The Art of War, The Conquest of Happiness, erotic stories by Anais Nin, The Craft of Power, Crime and Punishment...

Movies: Wild Orchid, V for Vendetta, Much Ado About Nothing, The Natural, Wind and the Lion, Out of Africa, Romance, The Last Samuri, The French Scene in Apocalypse Now Redux, Good Will Hunting, Beautiful Mind,...very long list.

Food: Champagne (Taittinger), Fried Parsley and Oysters, Green Salad with Blue Cheese, Rack of Lamb or Grilled Salmon, Curried Rice, Vintage Chateau Margeaux or Chateau La Tour, Strawberries or Creme Brulet, Cafe au Lait.

The six things I could never do without

Seminal Ideas

Clever Friends

Reading

Thinking

Creating

Transforming

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Contradictions, Dilemmas, and Enigmas

The interesting stupidity of political correctness, and it's relation to social control by the owners

The word girl and Feminism

Discipline as metaphor

The Big Bang

Le Petite Mort

Leibniz' Monadology

Cat Behavior

Hypocrisy

Why girls are attracted to older men

Editors

On a typical Friday night I am

Conversing, Laughing, Drinking, Cooking, and Eating with Close Friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I believe Nietzsche got it right.

You should message me if

You are a sweet young lady, who wants to live the fantasy of being with a dominant older male, who will provide you with love, guidance, and direction in a casual to serious long term relationship.