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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 38–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 1:28am
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Ah, so this is the sell yourself with witty one liners bit. Well, I`m no good at self promotion but I can say that I'm not demented (although I have a sense of humour bordering on inappropriate that definitely can land me in hot water), I`m fairly laid back, look after my friends and family (and anything living really), am trying to outgrow Imposter Syndrome in my new job, am a huge fan of pottering and am very skilled at being outlandishly lazy but also diligent and hardworking when I have to be. Oh and I love cider (and cheese...anything beginning with C seems to be the theme).
What I’m doing with my life
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Making lists and stuck on a loop of packing/unpacking lots of shit that I seem to just move between two places over and over again. The joys of living in 2 places I suppose. I`ve just qualified as a Counselling Psychologist so I`m enjoying the sounds of Doctor before my name but never ever let anyone on a plane know that. I can finally travel again after years of being a skint student so I spend far too long online staring at faraway wooky hideouts.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Sorting other people`s shit out (it`s my day job after all), mending things, cooking halloumi, driving too fast, growing orchids, speed reading and remembering things about people that surprises them.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well that would depend on what their eyesight was like, and also their hearing. Mmmm, people have said I am always smiling, but it could well be a grimace. Probably red hair and I smell nice. Does that answer the question?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have so many favourite books..argh! Well, The God of Small Things, Vernon God Little, anything by Jasper Fforde or Philip Pullman, The Death of Bunny Munroe, anything by Charles Bukowski and Henry Miller. Favourite movies...Pan`s Labryinth, Beasts of the Southern WIld, Paris Texas, Drive, Alien, The Whale Rider. Favourite shows...Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, True Detective, Favourite music...I like all sorts...Kate Bush, Moloko, Nine Inch Nails, Citizen Cope, Gary Clark Jr, John Martyn, Jeff Buckley, Tensnake, old Cure stuff, Olafur Arnalds, Winged Victory for the Sullen. Favourite food...halloumi, anchovies, duck eggs with celery salt, moules mariniere and every kind of cheese ever invented.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sunshine (I get the irony living in England)
Good friends and family
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
A very happy camper to be back in Brighton after a week away at work. I`m not that predictable, so it might be the movies, chilliing on the sofa, or catching up with friends in the pub.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If I hear Dire Straits on the radio I have to turn it up really really loud and I know all the words (guilty pleasure courtesy of my Dad)
You should message me if
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...You believe in compassion over aggression and laughter over shouting. I`m not a fan of all over beige, or really white teeth that hurt your eyes, scruffy or smart is fine, it`s not the clothes that maketh the man is it?
I can be irreverent and stupid with you, but also serious and passionate .. you enjoy a decent bottle of something delicious, can laugh at yourself and the absurdity of the world, you`re happy to sit through films with subtitles and have an aversion to romcoms. I`m not interested in a career/wealth junkie, just someone who loves what they do, whatever that happens to be. If you sounded like Patrick Stewart or Ralph Fiennes that would be a bonus, but thespians aside as long as you can hold a decent conversation in the Queen`s English we should get along fine. Catspeak would be good, and a superpower would be brilliant, but again these are things I can live without, I just thought I`d throw it out there. Baggage and issues are fine as long as they don`t border on the psychotic and deranged (that`s my day job), a bit of spark and fire in the belly is a definite and if you knew who Heidegger and Nietzsche were I`d be super impressed. Oh and seeing as I am always one clue away from finishing the G2 crossword if you could provide that last remaining clue I`d be bowled over, but I like to be suprised so I`ll leave the rest to you....