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27 Oakland, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26-38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:01pm
Heteroflexible, Questioning
Hispanic / Latin
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Average build
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Creative, self-aware, intuitive Latina lady navigating the human condition and constantly asking myself what it takes to be the person I want to be right now at this very moment.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
"What is success? To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty; to find the best in others; to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived; that is to have succeeded."

* In general, I try to live my life by this idea because nothing else really matters when you think about it. *

I am a freelance graphic designer and feel like I've finally eased into that lifestyle (aka doing whatever the fuck I want). I'm currently working with a few interesting clients that are doing things I personally resonate with (I work with a local online magazine called Wear Your Voice that tackles intersectional feminism, social justice, and tearing down media norms) and I'm excited to continue to find more things to do that are in a similar vein. I work from a local co-working space during the week, and make art at my studio share @ American Steel when I'm in the mood to get my hands dirty. I also make one-off comics on my blog from time to time and if I wasn't doing any of this, I'd probably be a therapist.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Observing, creative things, avoiding math at all times, listening, giving some heart-felt advice, dancing, storytelling, art, communication, intimacy, saying too much, being late, making sound effects
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm not other people, but I'm going to take a crack at this.

- Could be that I'm making a heinous sound with my throat because that's the only way I know how to scratch it when my allergies kick in
- Or maybe its that I'm smiling at you
- Or that I'm talking to a cat
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Reveries of a Solitary Walker, Generation X, The Metamorphosis, In the Time of the Butterflies, The Art of Seeing Sideways, The Alchemist, The Wind Up Bird Chronicle, Tibetan Book of Living and Dying, Naked, and no I'm not sorry that I really loved reading Insatiable by Asa Akira. Starting to read a book about Cuban Anarchism now, and just finished Modern Romance on audiobook which is really worth listening to if you are reading this profile right now (also, it's really hard to top Aziz reading his own book to you).

Movies: There's a ton of movies that I probably should see, and that I haven't seen so feel free to throw recommendations (or your DVDs) my way. Some favorites are Fight Club, Back to the Future, A Waking Life, Babel, Science of Sleep, Amelie, The Artist, Lost in Translation, Motorcycle Diaries, Blade Runner, Anything Miyazaki, Tarantino, Coppola, Anderson

Shows: BROAD CITY, The Daily Show with Jon Stewart, The Colbert Report, Portlandia, Arrested Development, LOST, Ghost in the Shell: SAC, 30 Rock -- I don't watch much television... Things on Netflix every now and then.

Music: Eskmo, Clark, Amon Tobin, Nosaj Thing, The Weeknd, A$AP Rocky, M.I.A., FKA Twigs, Banks, Phantogram, Beats Antique, Grimes, Com Truise, Kendrick Lamar, Purity Ring, Childish Gambino, Glass Animals, Toro y Moi, Washed Out, Justice, Junior Boys, The Black Keys, El Guincho, Salem, iamamiwhoami, Little Dragon, Massive Attack, Sneaker Pimps, The Kills, The Smiths, The Cure, Kraftwerk, Nina Simone, Buena Vista Social Club. Special places in my musical heart forever reserved for: mi reina Celia Cruz, and Bjork.

Also, I'm really into the local bass music scene/DJs and not above dancing ANYWHERE if the music hits me just right. Not afraid to be the only body on a dance floor either.

Food: Favorite? Cuban food. Let's not even kid ourselves. And no, there is not one Cuban restaurant worthy in the Bay, but I have an admittedly high standard since abuela's cooking is unparalleled.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A place with beautiful weather most of year, a city, public transit, music, one really amazing friend, cultural diversity, nature/parks, a sketchbook
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
WHO/WHAT/WHEN/WHERE/WHY, design, sociology, what is going on in other parts of the world at this moment, the future, how office jobs should not be 9-5 but rather during the evening hours so we can enjoy the daylight, if that was an earthquake, how creepy abandoned buildings are and what they were like at the prime of their existence, how badly I want to sneak into said buildings, road trips, how sick I am of the phrase "twenty-somethings" and what it encompasses (I'm looking at you Thought Catalog), what drives humans to commit mass atrocities, how funny my inner dialogue is with myself, how everyone circle-jerks each other on social media, public transit etiquette and why many people fail at this, how to form a fucking good habit, forgiveness, privilege, impermanence, if I can recycle that, why I said that, why I didn't say that, "leaning in", sexy times, social justice, how to be a good ally, vulnerability, turning my life into a web comic, suffering, the prison industrial complex, my heritage, why ripe guava smells like B.O.
You should message me if
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• You have a special place in your heart for self-awareness, introspection, emotional intelligence, body/sex positivity, and clear communication! Kinky Salon?

• You've never started a sentence with some shit like "I'm not racist, but..." 'Racist' interchangeable with sexist, ableist, etc. You know?

• You're thoughtful and understand that behind these profiles we are all complex individuals who are much more than just bubbles & blurbs on a screen.