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elmadero

58 M Farmington, NM

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:06pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm thinking this whole question thing is a spoiler. Maybe some of the stuff we answer isn't as important as we think, at least in the short term. Which can be enough to form friendships if not Forever Love. And most of us need more friendship then we have. I can be your friend even if we don't always (or mostly) agree. Try it??

Geek nerd biker. Listens well. Opinionated but not judgmental. Not sure why I'm here but it's not for a monogamous lifetime connection. Been there, been burned. Appreciate Love. Understand Love. But not willing to limit Love. Can be a good pen-pal but it can be frustrating after a while. Conversant on almost any subject. Don't know much but know a little about a lot - and know the right questions to ask... sometimes...
What I’m doing with my life
Filling out this essay. Didn't I do this before? I'm just trucking along in my crazy world. Wanna come?

Actually I'm regrouping... Tough times. For now. But seeking all the laughter I can enjoy - giving and receiving.

In spite of tough times I am enjoying my new small sedan. Now I can get to places (Albuquerque, Durango...) I only thought about going before.

Recently started exploring Christian fellowship after a hiatus of about 18 years. Participated in the Passion Play (PPMI = Passion Play Ministries International) - found it very fulfilling. Not sure how it will all work out... Christ is cool - Christians can be a pain in the ass. Overall a good experience with some awesome moments - even actual answered prayer! Pretty cool.
I’m really good at
Designing - cabinets, remodel projects, motorcycle modifications, car and truck accessories...

Thinking I know something but, sometimes, failing to realize it's not what my partner-in-conversation needs or wants to hear right now.

Learning to shut up.
The first things people usually notice about me
Blue eyes and quick wit. My goal is to make you smile in the first few minutes we talk.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Too numerous to list. Love my Kindle. Enjoy old books I find on Project Gutenburg.

Music: anything you like. Partial to Rock (old metal, etc.); Smooth Jazz; Classical (esp. Dvorak, Rachmaninoff) and lately have been enjoying Michael Card's songs.

Food: Not fussy. prefer fruit to veggies, meat to bread, and enjoy Hot Mexican (real hot, not gringo hot).
The six things I could never do without
Motorcycles, Music, Books, Deep look into her beautiful eyes, The touch of her skin after a shower, Her amorous advances... (gotta dream, Eah?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
NOW. And why Now is all we've really got. And why the Now we have is not the Then we expected.

How to understand another's needs and how to find fulfillment helping another find their fulfillment.

"Did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage?" - Pink Floyd in "Wish You Were Here"

Polyamory - why it doesn't seem to work for me.

Why people are scared of what they refuse to learn about. Why people refuse to learn about what scares them.

Horsepower, lean angles, tire traction...

Lotion on her skin after a shower...
On a typical Friday night I am
On a date, hoping for a date, or surfing to occupy my dateless mind.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I just want to be OK. And safe. You?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–74
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
... you are up for intelligent conversation or if you're just a little crazy ;-) (Crazy is good!)

... you're looking for friendship now and not worrying about forever.