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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 54–94
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:38am
White, Other
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Other, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Other (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Non-conformist who nevertheless looks good in a suit (when pressed). Stylish, casually so. A seasoned rebel who sees no end to the current season, or reasons, for rebellion. A gallant knight whose wounds have healed and is ready to start anew with clarity and kindness. Probably too darn smart and witty for my own good, yet the rusty, churning flywheels of my brain do frequently sparkle. Intellectual yet Earthy. Artistically inclined - visual, literary and musical - and capable of all sorts of mundane feats of daily survival - a sort of Renaissance Man for the Millennium. Extremely kind and considerate, particularly to animals, small children and the elderly - but incapable of suffering pompous fools gladly - in which case sarcasm is the best defense. Analytical, rather than judgmental. Tend to see the glass as half-full - even though the bottle is more than half-empty - and being steadily drained!
In spite of what might appear to be thorns and contradictions, I always thought I was the normal one. It's the world that's crazy! After all is said and done I am actually a lot of fun.
Seriously looking for a truly GREAT woman to embark on a meaningful journey in a meaningless world.
In any event - let's laugh together - a lot!
OK, now I'm listening... and waiting for some voluptuous creature to startle me with good news (or else zap me with a stun gun).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Unfortunately, I’ve been cursed by the slavery of talent.
I toil ceaselessly. Re-invention is a daily ritual. Currently trying to pack it all into a novel.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I’ve been a chef, a musician, a filmmaker, a photographer, and finally a writer, among other things. Actually, there’s not much I can’t do, however, there sure is a lot I won’t do. Oh, well, maybe if you ask me pretty please...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Legs. Halo. Imagination.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm always open to new experiences... but for now-
Films: Love Me Tonight, Gods & Monsters, Sullivan’s Travels, Wrestling With Ernest Hemingway, Some Like It Hot, Arsenic And Old Lace, Casablanca, A Bronx Tale, The Sopranos, Triplets of Belleville, Breaking Bad...
Dramatists: Buechner, O'Neill, Pinter, Tennessee, Charles Ludlum, Dennis Potter, Vince Gilligan...
Books: Me, Cheetah!, In The Garden of The Beast, Shantaram!, A Sport, A Pastime, Erich Marie Remarque, Penelope Fitzgerald, Gil Rogin... but more often a ton of non-fiction... Howard Zinn, Kuznick & Stone, I Heard You Paint Houses....!
Music: Swing to Bop - Charlie Parker (the greatest artist of the 20th century!), Sidney Bechet, Louis, Duke, the Count, Prez, Bean, Hawk, Trane, Miles, Newk, Zoot, Jimmy Rowles, Tommy Flanagan... Django, Lady Day, Ray Charles, Dakota Staton, Little Jimmie Scott, James Taylor...the Great American Songbook, and not just jazz, but lots of classical too...
Food: Simple, fresh food - nothing too pretentious - unless someone else is cooking it! Essentially a Mediterranean diet, lots of fish and green veggies. However, to preserve my red corpuscles I still gotta chomp down on some poor dead land animal every six months or so.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Kindness and clarity is enough.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Who? What? Where? When? Why? And How?
And the fact that OKC’s personality assessment is absolutely ridiculous!
Certainly, in my case, it couldn’t be farther from the truth.
More Spontaneous?
Me? I may have a spontaneous impulse, but generally, I think too much. However, when I was barely out of the cradle I was a bartender and I had to learn how to size up people in a snap! And I’m usually right. Olive or twist?
More Old-fashioned? Only in the sense that there’s nothing new under the sun. However, due to the absence of intelligent political leadership, I am getting to be more and more like an “old-fashioned” radical-socialist-anarchist. But communism was always a con-job.
More Aggressive? Who, me? Sorry, wrong guy. Where did they get that idea?
Only slightly Compassionate? At the risk of sounding saintly, I would rate myself extremely high in compassion. Next stop for me would be Jainism. I cry when I kill a fly, but I still do it anyhow. I believe that the only true religion is kindness.
Only slightly playful? I think Marx is god - no, not Karl - Groucho. You read my profile - could it be less somber?
Less Wholesome? Nobody’s mother ever gave me their seal of approval. What mother in her right mind ever wanted a musician or a writer for a son-in-law? On the other hand, I am 100% organic and - I’m still active, healthy and relatively sane.
Less Independent? I love harmony, but I follow my own drummer. I value people for their character, not their affiliations.
More Sexperienced? Well, there may have been a few moments. Looking back, I wish there had been many more moments. But how the hell would OKC know?
The OKC algorithm for "personality" definitely does not pertain to me. Have you read yours? What do you think?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going to bed early to get a jump start on the Saturday morning cartoons.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Ha! Not even if I'm tortured!
No, please - no tickling! That's not fair!
Wait - stop - what was the question?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you're looking for-
Sex with strings.
Preferably violins and cellos behind a curtain.
But if the strings are hopelessly out of tune - or someone's peeking through the curtain - I may withdraw before the final cadenza and just make do with the champagne.
Or else, you’re just really desperate - to meet somebody who's as extra special as you!
Come on - Life's too short to frown.

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