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38 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–38
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Oct 5
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5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Dropped out of University
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Creative workaholic. Obsessive content creator. Fan of science and science fiction. Good at pinball. Tries to be punctual. Kind of a hippie.
What I’m doing with my life
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I write about music and culture for a few different publications. I hang around Bed-Stuy a lot and work from home but I'm always looking for an excuse to get out of my neighborhood. I'm in an open relationship with a very cool queer girl. My co-worker is an orange cat named Junior. He is my soulmate.
I’m really good at
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Writing, making music, long conversations about niche topics.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My big hair, my blue eyes, and my charming Midwestern accent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Political/psychedelic sci-fi (Samuel R. Delaney, Philip K. Dick, Octavia Butler, Ursula K. Le Guin, and Margaret Atwood). Nonfiction and true crime. The occasional detective novel. Currently getting my mind shredded by trying to read Moby-Dick and Werner Herzog's diaries from Fitzcarraldo at the same damn time.

Movies/shows: Dario Argento, X-Files, Orange Is the New Black, Through the Wormhole, Primer, ST:TNG, Cosmos, Planet Earth, Law & Order, Snuff Box, Beyond the Black Rainbow, Vikings, Archer, Venture Brothers.

Music: Whatever I'm in the process of reviewing, plus Future, Jeremih, the-Dream, the-Drum, Nirvana, Drake, David Bowie, Nine Inch Nails, Kanye, Le1f, the Cure, Bob Dylan, Carl Craig, Emmylou Harris, and weird electronic producers on SoundCloud. I have a Misfits tattoo and I have Notorious B.I.G.'s Ready to Die on my phone permanently.

Food: Spicy and/or cheese-based. Vegetarian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My cat
The Internet.
Cheap beer.
High-end weed.
Kinky sex.
Something to read.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I have on a number of occasions daydreamed about being able to text message my cat.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Writing or at a show or texting people to figure out what they're doing because I didn't plan ahead.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have on a number of occasions daydreamed about being able to text message my cat.
You should message me if
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You're a good conversationalist, a stoner, a sci-fi fan, a rap geek, or any combination of the above and you're looking for someone to kick it with in a low-pressure way.