in the past year i moved and got a fancy new job and i still often feel like i am stuck. i am simultaneously super-excited about the huge steps i just made in my life while also super frustrated about what i am doing with my life. but that is what everyone thinks, right?

i like things that other people like. sometimes i think im special and unique and sometimes i think i am just as special and unique as every other person on the planet (including you). but that is what everyone thinks, right?

i sell wedding gowns. yeah. bridal gowns. not in a creepy way, just in a "i am really good at finding a girl the dress of her dreams" kind of way. and in a modest way.

i am also trying to figure out a long term life plan. so far, i haven't gotten anywhere. suggestions are encouraged

i don't know.... stuff??
i can nap like a champ
i can pack a suitcase quickly, efficiently, and i can ALWAYS fit one more item in

i am really bad at making decisions.

i used to say my glasses, they had awesome rhinestones in the corners.

my new glasses are green. i love them also... but nothing could ever beat the rhinestones.

i love tom robbins, such a wonderful writer. and ayn rand weaves these breathtaking stories that you just completely escape into. like tom wolfe, just brilliant. in general, i devour books; an hour each way on the subway to and from work encourages it. i go through about 1 to 2 books per week, most not good enough to recommend

one of the best things is curling up on the couch with a cuddlebuddy and a movie........

i could not live without simon and garfunkel. but i also listen to everything else. i use to be one of those people who said everything but pop and country, but i am an out of the closet pop fan. and you can not be anti-country after listening to johnny cash. i can't live without itunes on random so i can get a nice mix. since being out of school i have not been exposed to enough NEW music, or new old music as the case often is. i always like to hear about new bands, so please let me know what i am missing

food is pretty awesome.

3 hour meals, summer, warm sweatshirts on cold days, a couch, waking up and realizing i don't have work so i can roll over and go back to sleep

what am i doing with my life. my goal is to be happy, but what will achieve that? what has made YOU happy? and can i appropriate it for my own usage?

up at school i went to services then had a long meal with friends.

when i moved home after school, i worked and then curled up on the couch to watch the soup and best week ever.

i now live in a beautiful brownstone with awesome roomates and am still figuring out what a typical friday will be

i probably flagged your picture. its nothing against you. i just really believe in/agree with the terms of service about the pics. so if you have a photoshopped, cropped, zoomed, handdrawn, infared, nakie, or if i cant see your face (yes, there is a neccessity to see your face, message me if you are interested in the logic of it and how it is an implied rule, not explicit) --- i flagged you. and i won't apologize. put the pic in your journal. or send it to me later. i would love to see your dog/cat/koala, just not when i want to see YOU.
on a personal level, sorry. sort of.

there is a video of me on youtube. it is almost impossible to find bc of its.... odd labels. i love it.

you also love to be barefoot. or you like my profile. or my picture. or short, choppy sentences. or you love simon and garfunkel. or you know who wrote "skinny legs and all" and why it is utterly brilliant. or really long run on sentences in which you try to encapsulate so many thoughts and ideas but no matter the order or word choice nothing ends up the way you want it to and you end up with just a long sentence that means nothing and you still want that darn slice of pizza. or if you want someone to talk to. or if you're bored. or if you are really brave and don't want to cop out with a wink.

but feel free to wink if you must, i still appreciate the menial effort.

im looking for a guy who smiles a lot, and may also have a pic of himself smiling on here. i find it so disappointing to look at a guy's profile and there are no pictures of him (you?) smiling.
and, i'm sorry, but if you have kids- i don't see this going ANYWHERE. i am 24 and not only am i not ready to have kids at all, but the idea of having kids freaks me out.
i like tall guys-- i am 5' 8", i'm looking for 5' 9" and up. my ideal guy is jewish. he (you) doesn't have to be jewish, it's just big bonus points.

***** if you dont have a profile or a pic posted, go do that THEN message me. i will not talk to you without a profile AND a picture.*****