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51 • F • Bergenfield, NJ
I’m looking for
- Guys who like girls
- Ages 45–58
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Jul 20
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body Type
- Strictly anything
- Agnosticism, and laughing about it
- Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Entertainment / Media
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Latin (Poorly)
I live in northeast NJ, a few miles from the GWB. I share my house with my pet rabbit Daisy, my Maltese dog Poppy, and numerous houseplants and dustbunnies. I can often be found reading, watching movies/TV (viva la Netflix!), talking to friends, listening to NPR or The Peak, bowling, riding the bus, reading the New Yorker, playing with the dog.
I travel for both work and vacation. I love experiencing the world and especially tasting its varied cuisines (although I'm not keen on jet lag). I made it to Singapore and Thailand two years ago; Scotland last year. Favorite vacation of all time was hiking the Grand Canyon and staying at Phantom Ranch. Also LOVE Cape Cod, South Africa, Hawaii, my birthstate California, and places I haven't gotten to yet... This year I plan to get certified in scuba and find a spot to try out those new skills.
I'm working more yoga into my regular routine, as I find it a great way to wipe the mental slate clean as well as build strength, flexibility, balance. Please note that I am NOT a religious person. I am open-minded on the subject - I think we each need to find a way to make sense of our existence - and I have friends and family with deep beliefs. I like to think that I have a strong spiritual side. But if you are looking for someone to share your religion/beliefs, I wish you well in your search.
Favorite authors are Michael Chabon, Haruki Murakami, Alice Munro, Raymond Chandler, Roger Angell, John McPhee ... I'm always up for a good read. My guilty pleasure is detective fiction. I subscribe to the New Yorker and can't bear to let an issue go without reading the cartoons. TV shows on the list include The Closer, Mad Men, Modern Family, Parks and Rec, and reruns of Law & Order CI.
Food -- just about anything, but especially sushi, Thai/Asian, Mexican, and burgers. I am a big fan of having breakfast for lunch or dinner.
My music collection runs from Motown to classic rock to contemporary singer/songwriters. Favorites are Brandi Carlile, Mumford and Sons, the Mavericks, Lyle Lovett, Joan Osborne, Richard Shindell, Richard Thompson, Motown, early ELO, Split Enz, Elvis Costello, Nick Lowe... and I love singing along :)
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