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em-j-bee

47 M Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 4
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a kind-hearted, open-minded person, down-to-earth without being jaded, hip without being a hipster, discriminating but not pretentious, charming but not smarmy, funny but not frivolous. Hoping to meet someone who likes all things good: good food, good music, good conversation, good company. If you communicate well through humor, like to think and talk, and appreciate a game of backgammon over, say, a nice scotch, we'll get along fine.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a bipolar music historian (a bit less faux-sciencey than "musicologist"). Imagine if Johannes Brahms and Mahalia Jackson had a baby...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Putting people at ease, traveling, being perceptive, planning dates, surprises.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My calming demeanor. Later...my wicked sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Not a big TV guy, but...Six Feet Under, The Wire, and Arrested Development were brilliant (I'm agnostic on the new version of the latter, though I like the interlocking episodes, but I digress). I was recently turned onto House of Cards and loved it. Looking for recommendations.

I tend more to non-fiction than fiction. I like documentaries and old movies?

I'm much more inclined toward savory than sweet--Banh Mi sandwiches, burritos, chicken pot pie, Pok Pok wings are comfort foods--but I have an appreciation both for dives and a high end restaurant with excellent service.

Music...don't get me started. A bit old school, but impeccable taste. I'm especially partial to 1960s and 70s soul and funk.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, LPs, a quality burrito, a coffee shop with good ambiance, intelligent conversation, a sense of humor, learning, listening to baseball on the radio, big cities.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Let me think about it and get back to you.