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25 Missouri City, TX Genderqueer, Transfeminine

Genderqueer, Transfeminine

I’m looking for

  • Bi men and women
  • Ages 25–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:29am
Queer, Questioning, Sapiosexual
Native American
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of two-year college
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and has cats
English, Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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My name is ember. I am as old as my tongue and considerably well-travelled for my age. My friends and family might describe me as eccentric, funny, generous, honest and straightforward. They would not describe me as excitable, impressionable, ambitious or outgoing.

I am genderqueer (i.e., I make my own gender). I typically feel more feminine than masculine and have been on male-to-female hormone replacement since the beginning of July.

For dating I tend to prefer older partners, but age is less important than general experience and maturity level. I am not in the least interested in monogamous relationships, and I don't give half a crusty rat pellet about your money, race, weight, gender or sexual anatomy. Kindness and intelligence turn me on more than anything.

My interests include travel, bicycling, camping, hiking and exploring wooded areas, reading out loud (to anyone who will listen) and playing and teaching Go. I would like to meet people with whom I can share any or all of these activities.
What I’m doing with my life
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At present I am living with family in Houston while endeavoring to accumulate enough fiat printer paper to purchase a motorhome or residential trailer, as well as enough gas to have the option of mobility for at least several months, after which point I intend to recommence with my low-consumption lifestyle of adventuring between organic farms and intentional communities.

I'd very much like to find a companion to accompany me (children and pets welcome) before then inasmuch as a life of itinerancy tends to become dreadfully lonely, and my boyfriend is busy with schule at this juncture and has no interest in dropping what he's doing to follow me around the country without a concrete itinerary.

Otherwise I focus my attention on the moment and spend my days trying not to get fooled into thinking that what I am's not enough.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
• making amigurumi dolls
• reading out loud (Please let me read to you.)
• making mixtapes for friends and acquaintances
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: I am presently about halfway through the unabridged audio edition of 'The Name of the Wind: Kingkiller Chronicles' by Patrick Rothfuss, which is turning out to be one of the best fantasy novels I've 'read' in a long while. I'm also working on 'The Good Fairies of New York' by Martin Millar and Mom, I Need to be a Girl by Just Evelyn.

movies: Another Earth, Dellamorte Dellamore, The East, Harold and Maude, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Her, The Life of Brian, Lo, The Next Three Days, Il Piccolo Diavolo, The Princess Bride, Sacco e Vanzetti

shows: American Horror Story, Arrow, Banshee, Black Mirror, Doctor Who, The Flash, Game of Thrones, Hannibal, Lilyhammer, Orphan Black, True Blood, various anime


food: taquerías, tacos con nopales, Mediterranean, hummus, falafel, vegetarian sushi, vegan squid jerky, whatever's available
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
• family
interpersonal touch
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
people I've known and places I've been
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
You should message me if
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you are a kind and genuine person
Message me if it pleases you to imagine us as good friends.

I won't feast on your internal organs — I'm vegetarian.