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40 Shanghai, China Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 17
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Might want kids
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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American living my 9th year abroad starting my 4th year in Shanghai. I live my life from holiday to holiday, love good food, good wine and good company! Ready for my next big adventure whether I find it with someone or someplace.
What I’m doing with my life
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Living it, exploring the globe, learning about life, culture and people.
I’m really good at
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not studying mandarin
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile. 3 years with braces definitely paid off! Thanks Mom and Dad.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like anything with interesting and intriguing characters who go through identity crises and personal reflections. Went through a Murakami phase, Shantaram is one of my favs and just read a few by Mark Haddon. Love British humor...and British accents!:) I'm not going to pretend I read these intellectual books that no one has ever heard of because I don't. Never been one for blockbuster movies but do enjoy foreign films and docos and the occasional rom com that continue promoting this absurd idea that women need men, marriage and babies to be happy. Always enjoy live music..jazz, rock, folk..was a music major in a past life so I do get in that classical, opera mood at times. I make it a rule to head bang only once a month. I have a weakness for food..any type of food. Preferably something that had parents with lots of sauce and cheese. Hey, I'm from the South.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(not in order of importance)
a sense of humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where to go on my next holiday.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
having dinner with good food and friends or watching a DVD on the couch.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Guess you'll just have to find out!
You should message me if
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you don't play games and are brave enough to be real and honest. Oh..and yellow fever addicts please refrain!

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