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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 18
Open relationship
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism and laughing about it
Dropped out of Two-year college
Doesn’t want kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Japanese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a laid back, emotionally stable person who approaches life with a fair and open mind. I have very liberal opinions with regard to personal freedom and strive for equality in my personal interactions and world perspectives. I'm a joyfully unrepentant nerd and have been that way all of my life. I like problem-solving and I'm agreeably resonant with many things that are sci-fi and fantasy related. When not spending time with friends, I tend to be something of a homebody but I do enjoy the occasional spontaneous trip out to try something new.

I am polyamorous and enjoy it for the freedom it provides, the non-jealous lower-drama people it attracts and the inherent awareness that it's entirely possible to love more than one person. :)

I am analytical, playful and respectful.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Recently I started working as a Support Analyst at Microsoft. While the technical nature of the job is definitely my MO, it still feels like a big shift from my previous testing positions. And despite being a corporate stooge now, I'm generally enjoying it.

Outside of work, I get together with friends for movies, games and the odd-ball random adventure. I've also been taking Aikido just under a year now and more recently I've taken and interest in Balisongs. They're so flippy! :D
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am good at getting people to relax, laugh and have a good time.
I've always had a head for numbers and tend to get fixated on problems until I've worked something out. I have some skill with computers but most of my computer use these days is focused toward work or video games. I frequently come up with odd-ball off the wall ideas and enjoy sharing them with others. :D
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm reserved when I first meet people, especially in large groups. I grow comfortable with people quickly and depending on the people can be quite snuggly. :)
I'm also reasonably tall and have sweet long hair. Quite recently, I started sporting a beard. While it's not a Riker "Sex Beard" yet, I have high hopes. :D
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Jeremy Thatcher Dragon Hatcher, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Stranger in a Strange Land, Q Squared
Movies: American Beauty, When Harry met Sally, Starship Troopers, EuroTrip, V for Vendetta, The Mask, Shawn of the Dead, Hot Fuzz, everything Kevin Smith, Office Space, Super Troopers, Pulp Fiction, The Princess Bride, Breakfast Club, Hunt for the Red October, Avatar
Bands: Weird Al Yankovic, Blue Man Group, old Linkin Park, Basshunter (first album) , Eve 6, Guns n Roses, Rise Against, She Wants Revenge, Cranius, System of a Down
Foods: Curry, Sushi, Creme Brulee, Tapioca Pudding, Bananas, Rainier Cherries
Tabletop Games: Magic the Gathering, Shadows over Camelot, Gheos, Dominion, Settler's of Catan
Video Games: Team Fortress 2, Portal, Diablo 2, Ur-Quan Masters, Herzog Zwei, Phantasy Star IV, Warsong, Chrono Trigger
Web Comics: xkcd, Questionable Content, Goblins, Order of the Stick, ErfWorld, Penny Arcade, MegaTokyo, Sinfest
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1: Witty Conversation
2: Friendly Competition
3: Challenging Puzzles
4: Comfortable Surroundings
5: Playful Interactions
6: Affectionate Snuggles
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I tend to ask myself a lot of "what if" and "why not" questions without ever really expecting an answer. It's not uncommon for me to laugh to myself seemingly out of nowhere because a new brain tangent has entertained me. While my mind does wander a lot, a small part is always firmly rooted in the gutter.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Celebrating the arrival of the weekend. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Despite my geeky exterior, I'm a romantic and love mixing heartfelt connection with intellectual conversation.
You should message me if
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If you like witty, heartfelt or irreverent conversations. If you find analytical thinking and honesty attractive. If you like to cuddle. If you enjoy laughing at all of the absurd things in life. If you're not afraid to be silly. If you want a connection with another human being. If you have 6 fingers on your right hand (someone was looking for you! ;)
Basically, if you want to talk to me. Due to the terrible response rate of the fairer sex, I don't put out a lot of messages. I always respond though. :)