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emilyh1186

27 F Rochester, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:26am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Strictly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Technology
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a trans woman who is engaged and in an open relationship with a bisexual, cisgender man. We aren't interested in sharing partners. I'm looking mostly for someone of the feminine persuasion who would be eventually interested in sharing personal space, cuddling or whatever, I'm not too serious about sex. I'm open to new friends of any self-identification. I'm not sure what else to write at the moment, so I'll add more later.

I started the profile ages ago, so some of my answers to questions have changed quite a bit. If you have a question about one, feel free to ask. For example, in the past I hated the idea of an open relationship but am now open to it. In the past I was also not a vegetarian, but now I am. Things like that...
What I’m doing with my life
Mostly whatever I want. When things start to get monotonous in my work life I tend to want to bail, in that I'm rarely unemployed but I change jobs a lot simply out of boredom.

I currently work in technical support, and it's getting harder to go there everyday. I'd really like to find something that feels more meaningful than this, but it's what I have experience in.

I love educating, and do safe zone training and work with the medical community on working with trans people. I'm a public speaker, and volunteer or even sometimes get paid to talk about my transition. I'm not all about being trans though, it gets to be such a bore to talk about.

When I'm not working or volunteering, I'm having fun with friends or hanging out with my cats enjoying some trashy tv or a decent movie. Lately I've been spending more time at home, reading.
I’m really good at
I'm good with a computer, and I'm good at keeping myself busy. I'm told that I'm a great public speaker, and that I seem super confident, but in reality, I'm all sorts of insecure haha.
The first things people usually notice about me
That at first I'm shy, but then warm up quickly. This is because if I don't like you, I generally don't have much to say to you, but if I do I'll blab your ear off. I've been told often that I'm generous.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am a sucker for teen/young adult book series. I read fun stuff mostly. I like to read autobiographies that have an interesting subtopic. I love Burn Notice, Grey's Anatomy, House M.D., Adventure Time, My Little Pony (but I'm not a "brony" or "pegasister", just like the cartoon), and some other TV shows. I don't watch a ton of TV though. I'm a foodie and not afraid to admit it. I am super open minded about food (well, and most things really) and love all sorts. I love stand up comedy, and will spend a lot of time watching and re-watching shows. I really find Tig Notaro's "Live" to be a really profound comedy routine. Check it out.
The six things I could never do without
CHANGE! (not as in currency, but I do love buying things...)
Creativity
Communication (devices or tools included)
Family (including the friends that I can refer to as family and my cats)
My rebel style that refuses to list the sixth thing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think a lot about how to make my life better, or about what opportunities are out there that I'm missing. I keep thinking that I should get a more serious hobby, but that would probably just feel restricting to be honest.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably hanging out with some friends or a loved one.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I pass out when I see gore, too much blood, or surgical footage. Umm... I don't really hide anything real serious though.

Straight dudes kinda scare me, especially if they appear in any way aggressive or overly sex-focused. I like men and women, but I prefer bisexual ones. I've never understood gay dudes who hit on Trans women.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 21–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You think I'm gorgeous because that's always nice to hear... or if you'd just like to get to know me.

If you do write me, make sure it's more than "Hey" or "What's up" because those will surely be ignored.

DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH TRANSGENDER PEOPLE.