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emjay78

34 / F / Straight / Single

Chicago, Illinois

Her Details

Last Online
May 19
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Random. My friends and family call me the gypsy. Although I would love to be one, it would be too stressful not having a permanent home. These days I get my gypsy fix through traveling for work.

Having a story to tell at the end of my day is very important. It keeps life interesting. Sometimes it's just a bird on the L who warms his wings before getting off at his stop. Other times it's more involved with the random people I meet. Drama is not something I seek. Occasionally I will mark them with a tattoo (I have two.) just in case I get dementia.

Listening to music, NPR, and POTUS on XM radio is what you'll find me doing, when I'm not reading non/fiction and The New Yorker, working out, or hanging out with friends.
What I’m doing with my life
I've spent the last two years getting rid of stuff I that is not essential to living. Prefer minimalist living, especially since I will be starting grad school in a couple months. A cluttered space = A cluttered mind.
I’m really good at
I am really good at understanding people and thinking.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Shakespeare, On the Road, The Town and the City, Water for Elephants, Sin in the Second City, Sonja Blue, The Rice Room, Lamb (Christopher Moore is a genius), Game of Thrones

Movies: Amoros Perros, Office Space, Lord of the Rings, Good Will Hunting, documentaries, indie, too many to note

TV: West Wing, True Blood, How I Met Your Mother, Lost, Newsroom, Homeland, Downton Abbey, Luther

Music: Gogol Bordello, Flogging Molly, Mumford & Sons, The Decemberists, Sinatraesque, swing, Cole Porter, Louis Armstrong, Billy Joel, Diana Krall
The six things I could never do without
coffee, my kindle, people, NPR, water, family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Politics...more specifically how the government would work if it focused purely on the needs of people and less on personal gain. When I'm not thinking about that I'm thinking how to describe a beautifully, hilarious moment into a one sentence status update. Then I think how ridiculous it is that I once wanted to write a 400 page anthology of all those beautiful moments, and now it's been reduced to a short quip...unless I'm rushing to keep up with my sometimes hectic schedule.
On a typical Friday night I am
Depending on the week, I will either have a massage, pick up some food and watch a movie, or I'll go out for drinks with friends and check out a local band.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I want to have a garden someday...then again I'd have to have a yard, meaning apartment-living would not exist....hmmmmm...
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–38
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to turn off your computer and meet.