Starting on an introspective note because why not? Some things I have come to over time... Be true. Know the value of authenticity. Lead with your heart. Move through the world with the ease of someone who isn't always looking for something more or better, because it's not where you think it is. (not from a self-help book - just from paying attention.)
I am happy with who I am and who I'm becoming. Actually the becoming part is what excites me most right now. It's very liberating to realize that most of the people who had it all figured out and buttoned up early on are bored and unhappy.
Ok, the requisite sales pitch...people have told me they think I'm passionate, funny, fun, genuine, generous, wise, creative, adventurous, strong... (these are the people I like to hang out with obviously) I love living in Brooklyn. I'm happy on the beach and could look for rocks on a pretty much endless basis. I'm very happy digging in the dirt and moved when things bud and begin to open in the spring. Update: My fig tree is covered in ripening figs for the first time in 6 years. I call it 'The Little Fig Tree That Could'. Patience pays off...
I'm trying to teach myself ukulele. Googling things like "songs with 2 chords".
I'm hard to define but easy to know.
I'm attracted to a man who is confident yet humble, makes me laugh, is fit/takes care of himself, introspective but not narcissistic, able to expose his vulnerabilities, and can seduce me with words as much as with touch.
Most of all, I want to be with someone who knows how to communicate his feelings and is comfortable with himself.
I value honesty.