I do, though, always have a plan because I hate being caught unprepared and I hate even more to be late--although certain aspects of my life can be utterly spontaneous. I prefer to be busy and love the sense of accomplishment that comes from checking off my to-do list. My independence is something that I am proud of and wouldn't trade for the world. That being said, I would love to have someone in my life that could slow the pace of my mind, creating more balance, and take care of the parts of me that need it.
To this end, I suppose, you could say that I am a walking contradiction. But, aren't we all (in our most honest moments)?
While I am not a girly-girl (no heels or tight skirts for this chick), I am confidently feminine and truly enjoy all of the natural aspects of being a woman.