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emo_jess

21 / F / bisexual / Single

Waterloo, Wisconsin

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hypocritical

I feel very hypocritical when I write my profiles. I never know which week I am going to want a boyfriend(girlfriend) or want to be free to do what I want. I don't want to be tied down by anything, I want to be able to party and all that good stuff, but I also want someone to be there to party with me and be there for me when I need someone. Idk maybe I am just greedy but I want the best of both worlds. Is that something I can have at all? or what should I do about this, I wish I could just make up my mind!
I feel very hypocritical when I write my profiles. I never knowwhich week I am going to want a boyfriend(girlfriend) or want to befree to do what I want. I don't want to be tied down by anything, Iwant to be able to party and all that good stuff, but I also wantsomeone to be there to party with me and be there for me when Ineed someone. Idk maybe I am just greedy but I want the best ofboth worlds. Is that something I can have at all? or what should Ido about this, I wish I could just make up my mind!
hypocritical
An image of photographermax Sounds a bit greedy, yeah. Why not try to establish a polyamorous relationship? I'm sure a lot of people on this site are down.

photographermax commented on

An image of ckarling Forget the Polyamorous stuff, any man that tells you that just wants to get in your pants. What your feeling is VERY common for someone your age, I bet everyone has felt that in one way or another at some point in there lives. Your life will completely change over the next 5 years weather you believe it or not. Best advice: try looking for a best friend! A guy that can be there for you, yet still go out and party it up! Just be sure to put YOURSELF first. Finish your education, get your life in order and when the time is right, that perfect man will come along!

ckarling commented on

Default user image I believe I know what you mean. You want someone to share your moments with but on the other hand you need/feel like being alone or doing your own thing without anyone bothering you to do something else. I think you just need to find someone that is like that too so that they will understand.

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