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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23-35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:34pm
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Atheism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Chinese (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I try to avoid self-evaluating. I can say I'm caring, open-minded, and down to earth, but does it really mean much coming from myself? I try to be the best I can be. I don't cheat or play emotional games. I never have. Other guys think they have this formula that involves shirtless pics, bad grammar, and graphic questions. I don't understand.

At this time I'm sharing an apartment with a great friend.

I'm a science guy who somehow has a Bachelor of Arts, and loves cartography and astronomy, and has since childhood. I'm a nerd who likes nerd stuff, and that's the way it is. I won't change that for anyone.

When I turn on the radio I'm usually listening to NPR. If I want music I'll be on my satellite radio switching between 80's and 90's pop, and jazz.

I'm a skier-turned-snowboarder-turned-skier (the usual teenage phase), and enjoy the Winter Olympics better than the Summer ones.
What I’m doing with my life
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I graduated with a degree in environmental science, with a focus on Geographic Information Systems (GIS). Currently I work in the car parts industry. It's not something I can do forever, but I like having been with the same company steady for seven years.
I’m really good at
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Directions. I never use GPS. All I need is a cursory look at a map of the local roads after the highway exit, and I'm set.

I also get a lot of useless or useful trivia from Cracked and Listverse.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't know. You tell me! That's the purpose of those pictures.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors: J. G. Ballard, Stephen King, Junji Ito, Tsutomu Nihei
Movies: Dodgeball, Office Space, The Replacements, Ted
Shows: Family Guy, Big Bang Theory, It's Always Sunny, Tim & Eric
Music: 80's, 90's pop, Nerdcore, Jazz, Ambient
Food: Memphis ribs
Podcast: Skeptic's Guide to the Universe
Radio: Science Friday, Wait Wait, This American Life, Radio Lab
Magazines: MentalFloss, Consumer Reports
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Tons of varieties of BBQ sauce
Scion xD, which is NOT the boxy car
Samsung Galaxy S4
Powerful desktop computer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
social justice issues, and how just because things are the way they are does not mean we all need to resign and say "it is what it is." Realism need not equal cynisism! Even though it's not a guarantee, I always believe in a better tomorrow.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
commuting home, where the traffic seems to be the very worst at that time. Thursday night is when I go to karaoke. I sing. What do I sing? Ask!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm also a scientific skeptic. I am not spiritual or new-agey, not a conspiracy theorist, and generally don't believe paranormal claims. Carl Sagan said "Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence." I'd like someone who believes that too.
You should message me if
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you can put a complete sentence together. Text messages aren't a novelty anymore, so it isn't cool or cute to hyper-abbreviate every other word. Otherwise, I see no problem with a woman messaging a man first. It's not like I'd respond judgmentally.