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46 Tucson, AZ Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:04pm
Hispanic / Latin, White
Body Type
A little extra
Strictly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Yea! I finally have a new computer. Hope to be glitch free.

sorry about the picture. I know I need to post more, problem is, they all look like me...Ha! Okay, I really will try to get more soon. Yes, I am bald... mostly. I hope that doesn't give you PTSD after your long and hard search to find my profile. I don't remember my nose being that pointy... I don't think it is... oh well

If you are reading this because I sent you a message, I know I probably said something I shouldn't have, or in a way I shouldn't have. I hope that doesn't discourage you from responding. I rarely contact anyone on this site, as a result, making first contact is something I am not good at. (just like here in the physical world) If you got past the first part of my self-summary and kept reading who knows you might just like me. We might like each other... It could happen.
I like to get messages, for whatever reason. When I do it sometimes takes me a while, but I do try to respond. I try not to be an a$$, and I will respond unless I wait too long, then I feel stupid. I will honestly try to do better. It hasn't been a big problem. I don't know what to expect from the online thing, so I try not to get too excited or discouraged. I feel I must say, If you are very religious we will probably not be a good match. It tends to get under my skin, but I could be wrong, everyone is different.

*Update* Ok, I think I am giving up on trying to find the love of my life. Besides, I already met her, and she didn't like me (more than once). So, if you think we might be friends, have common interests, and might have a good time, then contact/reply me. (I think that makes sense.)

Here is some info about me, If you got this far don't stop now.

I live alone, except for my two dogs and cat.
I like ( in no particular order)
1. Art
2. Coffee
3. Books
4. Movies
5. chocolate
6. spending time not working on my house when I should.
7. trying not to eat things that are bad for me.
8. eating them anyway.
9. cooking (see #7 & #8).
10. Dancing (thats what I call it anyway.)
11. taking short, and long, trips.
12. spending time with friends.
13. trying to workout hard at the gym.
14. Trying hard to seem clever on internet dating site...

I did go to university... not sure why exactly... Most who try and guess my field of study get it wrong. It shouldn't be that difficult to figure out. Not sure what that should tell me. I do have a degree. I have the bills to prove it... ugh.

I have a Job, pay my taxes, try not to curse (yes try).
I don't drink, don't smoke... what do ya do? I think that is a song.....? maybe? -actually I do drink, but not often ( I don't think that part is in the song) (Adam Ant as it turns out, I like that song)

I like to sit at home in the dark and listen to a book on tape (yes I really do). Sometimes I will spend an afternoon sitting at the coffee shop reading a book when I should be working at home. I also seem to spend far to much of my available time falling for women who would/could never love me back.
I tend to daydream.

I don't really drink, only socially. When I go to bars or whatever (?) I tend to hang out but not drink much. Sometimes I will be at the store and look through all the wines. I mostly look at the label art. I also like to go to art galleries and museums sometimes just hang out and daydream. I can't explain, it isn't something I think about in words.

sometimes I can ramble on, and on... and on...

I don't "advertise" what I am passionate about. I tend to keep personal things more private than most. Even here, I am supposed to be giving a self-summary, I am not going to go on about everything I like or do. I believe sometimes people, including myself, pretend without really meaning to. I like to this, and I enjoy that, which is true, but making a statement about such things here can give a false impression. I want to be many things, sometimes seemingly incongruous things. The ideas of what my life would be have always been... nebulous maybe is a good way to put it. I feel like an abstraction, if that makes any sense. (I hardly ever get to use the words nebulous and abstraction... sweet!) I could tell you things I do, what I want from life and try to sound more interesting and clever than I really am. I love books and I am kind of an art nerd. I guess I am looking for... who knows? Finding love online seems... unrealistic maybe? I guess is can't hurt to try, at least not that much.
So, what do I want, what am I really looking for? The same thing as everyone else, of course. - Right now I just want to connect with new people, have fun and enjoy life. I would like to meet someone who might just want to run with me in the park( I will try to keep up). But it seems finding something like that is more difficult and comes with more baggage than one would think, it is never that simple is it. If we ever get to the point where what I want in a relationship really matters, maybe I will have some idea what that is by then. so for now...
Do you want to drive 4 hours to eat at a restaurant you heard about on NPR?, go to the sick and twisted animation show at midnight?, spend sunday in the park? So do I, it's just so much more fun when with someone.... sheesh! what's up with this guy. he's nuts.

I just want to enjoy my life and find love if I can. A hundred years from now no one will even remember me.
The least I can do is try to really live while I still have time.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working, paying the bills, and trying to not seem crazy on internet dating site.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being trained by my dogs and the cat. I do pretty much whatever they want on demand.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't think people usually notice me unless I'm blocking their view of someone they're trying to notice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This part is really a work in progress. There is so much...
compiling a list now.....

Please come back to read the rest soon! I promise the interesting part is coming up... I'll bet.

I am not really making a list. i just don't think you would believe me if I did.

right now I am reading Simon Van Booy, but don't tell anyone.
As for music, I enjoy many artists. My current favorites are Morrissey, and Tegan & Sara.

See, you probably don't believe that.

Ok, it's the weekend and I am trying to avoid doing things I really need to do. Perfect solution, see if I can get this list thingy started.

Some of my favorite books and/or authors are:
Kerouac, H.P. Lovecraft, Simon Van Booy, Marisa de los Santos, Goethe, Heather O'Neill, E. M. Forster, Jane Austen, Christopher Hitchens... more later.
I have started reading: Carrion Comfort by Dan Simmons. :o, Thus Spoke Zarathustra by Nietzsche, and Charlotte: Life Or Theatre? by/about Charlotte Solomon. (all very good so far)

I like good Sci Fi, which seems very hard to come by these days. I did enjoy Interstellar. Plot problems and all. I think that movie has the best movie robots.
I also liked: A Million Ways To Die In The West (yes, I laughed, a lot), The Perks of being a Wallflower, 2001( HAL 9000, Best movie villain ever), Superman Returns (way better than Man of Steel), The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo, Nick & Norah's Infinite Playlist, Hugo, Chasing Amy, Sideways, Kung Fu Hustle, Scott Pilgrim Vs. The World, Watchmen, V for Vendetta, Better off Dead... think if more later.

As for food, if it is bad for me I am sure I like it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Maggie, Barney, Snickers (my cat), long rides, sly looks, secret loves.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
recently, I have been thinking about trying to finish this profile thing.
*update* still thinking about it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the coffee house with friends.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You do NOT listen to right wing talk radio, or watch fox news.
Ever wanted to travel across the country by train.
If rain makes you happy and sad at the same time.
If you like to meet new people.