When talking about politics, I default to my ideals rather than pragmatism. I'm somebody who believes that achievable ideals lead to complacency once they are achieved. I'm perfectly happy holding ideals that may not be attainable and figuring out how to phrase them such that the closer you get to the ideal, the better the world is. If you can manage to rope me in and get me talking pragmatically, I'm still left-of-center by European standard, putting me firmly in "leftist nutjob" territory in the eyes of the US mainstream.
I am very happily in a polyamorous relationship, and while I am not particularly looking for another relationship, I am open to one if you are sufficiently awesome.