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endercoaster

25 Crystal Lake, IL Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 19–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Dec 23
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Dislikes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Latin (Okay), C++ (Fluently), LISP (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm a graduate in Computer Science, but I in no way regret getting a technical degree from a liberal arts school. Simply put, I love to learn, and I love to think. I find that the most engaging type of fiction is the type you have a part in creating, which is why I absolutely love tabletop roleplaying games, and am also a fan of pretty much any type of gaming there is, and just cannot read enough.

When talking about politics, I default to my ideals rather than pragmatism. I'm somebody who believes that achievable ideals lead to complacency once they are achieved. I'm perfectly happy holding ideals that may not be attainable and figuring out how to phrase them such that the closer you get to the ideal, the better the world is. If you can manage to rope me in and get me talking pragmatically, I'm still left-of-center by European standard, putting me firmly in "leftist nutjob" territory in the eyes of the US mainstream.

I am very happily in a polyamorous relationship, and while I am not particularly looking for another relationship, I am open to one if you are sufficiently awesome.

FL: Shemeshka
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've been told that my eyes are quite nice, but that's just a silly appearance thing. Once people get to talking with me, they generally notice that I'm somebody who can be sarcastic and biting while still, at the end of the day, being kind. If you try to talk with me about something like Jersey Shore, I probably won't pay attention to you that much. But if you hit on something I'm even vaguely interested in, you'll almost certainly notice how passionate of a person I can be.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Iron Heel, 1984, Game of Thrones, Discworld, Tolkien, Code Complete, Anarchism and Other Essays, basically any non-"airport novel" I can get my hands on.

Movies: V for Vendetta, Manufacturing Consent, Lord of the Rings, The Gamers, Sharktopus and other amusingly bad movies, Star Wars

Shows: Doctor Who, Game of Thrones, Top Gear, Weeds, Futurama, MLG, Arrested Development, Firefly, Clannad, Kanon

Music: Punk, folk, jazz that isn't smooth, classical music that's either bombastic or melancholy, and comedic musicals are what I choose to listen to, but I can listen to basically anything that's made with actual instruments and enjoy myself. (Some specific artists: Anti-Flag, Rise Against, Immediate Music, Evan Greer, Mumford and Sons)

Not-So-Guilty-Pleasures: Hell's Kitchen, Survivor, Saw
The six things I could never do without
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I suppose things like "food, water, shelter, oxygen" would be a bit too literal... in no particular order:
-My laptop
-Fairly regular internet access
-Friends I can rely on
-Books
-People doing things in the world that remind me that I'm not alone in wanting to improve it.
-The ability to occasionally do utterly random things just to entertain myself. Working as an usher at a concert venue a few years back, I went through an entire show talking to guests in a fake Scottish accent.
You should message me if
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You don't mind the fact that I'm a complete and utter nerd who spends his days programming and his nights fighting crime  playing games, aren't a conservative ass-hat, and can hold a meaningful conversation instead of just filling time with small talk. Unless said small talk is about Smalltalk.