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27 Kokomo, IN Man


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6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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I love going to museums, going on hikes, going to concerts, trying new restaurants, cooking entirely new recipes, being a tea snob, watching roller derby, playing trivia, staying in and watching terrible movies, going out and watching terrible movies, trying new craft beers, people watching, making up stories, and, above all, excellent conversations. I'm genuinely interested in knowing more about the people that I interact with--I find the diversity of humanity to be endlessly fascinating. I'll almost certainly ask you a lot of questions the first time we meet up. Sometimes this causes people to say that I don't talk about myself enough. I'm an open book, however, and will blather on about my own life ad nauseam, if you can interrupt me long enough to ask me a few questions in return. I strive to live a life without secrets, because I find secrecy to be stressful and generally pointless, so I will typically answer any question that is put to me.

I think that the way you view the world and the way you conduct yourself has a lot to do with perspective. It's easy to be negative about the world, but I generally choose not to be in my day-to-day life. I never go through a day without moments of genuine laughter, even if it's at my own expense. I also do my best to make everyday moments feel special and fun. I throw myself into experiences, even if I'm fairly certain it's something I'm not going to like, because it's way more fun to learn about something new and engage with it than it is to sulk and close your mind. I'm not 100% happy with where my life is at, and I'm sure my dreams will always be bigger than my reality, but I will always take what I have available and make it as fun, exciting, and interesting as I can.

TL;DR: if you value intelligence, enjoy a snarky wit, feel connected to a social consciousness, and frequently embrace your dorky side, we'll probably get along.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently living in Indianapolis, but I just got hired up in the Kokomo area, so I anticipate moving there in the next few weeks. I'll be working as an Archivist/Curator at a museum. It should be pretty rad.

I do some other stuff too. Ask me about it; that'd be a solid conversation starter.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at: being original, expressing myself, wearing khaki pants, leading a group, making everyone feel included, being oblivious, creative solutions, Satanic rituals, summoning Krampus, listening, wearing sunglasses, empathizing, growing patchy facial hair, adapting, maintaining the callipygian ideal, having fun with little money, making mundane activities into adventures, wildly gesticulating, daydreaming, writing, mastication, academia, inventing and promptly forgetting new languages, handling stress, keeping my cool, time-travel, getting things accomplished, defenestration, being in the right place at the right time, and making people laugh.

...Some of those might not be true, but you'd have to get to know me better to learn which ones.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Physically, probably my height. One friend told me that I "loom" over people, meaning that I "rise before ones' vision with an appearance of great or portentous size," which I think sounds pretty awe-inspiring. Imagine Cthulhu, but handsomer and with fewer tentacles.

In terms of personality, I've been described as witty. I have a vivid imagination and enjoy looking for ways that the world could be far less ordinary than it appears.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Books have been an important part of my life since early childhood. The first book I read was "Goodnight Moon," so it retains a special place in my heart. Current favorite authors include: John Irving, Brandon Sanderson, J.R.R. Tolkien, Kurt Vonnegut, Stephen King, Michael Crichton, Joe Hill, Gillian Flynn, Ken Follett, Neil Gaiman, Alexandre Dumas, George R. R. Martin and many, many others. I'm currently reading "Trigger Warning" by Neil Gaiman.

I also read comic books occasionally.

Movies: I love movies, though I'm by no means an expert on them. I've been slowly making my way through a Roger Ebert "Top 100 Movies of All Time" list, to patch some serious holes in my watching history. I'm also on a perpetual quest to find the scariest movies of all time. I love horror movies, but am usually disappointed at how few quality ones get released each year. Please message me your suggestions!

Shows: I don't have cable, so the Internet is my TV. My favorite TV personality is Gordon Ramsay, so I've been watching Hell's Kitchen and Masterchef. I'm curious to see what's going to happen with The Daily Show when it starts again.

Music: I listen to significantly more podcasts than I do music. When I am listening to music, my tastes usually fluctuate between punk/rock/metal, classical, and a little bit of pop.

Food: I love food. Eating is definitely a big hobby of mine, to the extent that I do it nearly every day. I've been getting into cooking a lot lately, and trying to get creative with ingredients and recipes. I've been trying to challenge myself to buy all the stuff at the store that I've never had/cooked with before, instead of just relying on the same things every week. In the past few weeks, I've bought stuff like fresh coconuts, pomegranates, kumquats, kiwano melons, shiitakes, and tempeh, and made things like crepes, stir frys, portobello pizzas, a vegetarian version of pasta alla carbonara, and a fun Iranian dish called fesenjan. It's so much more fun, in my opinion, to have different flavors and food experiences every week.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:

1) Community--In my mind, finding a harmonious relation between yourself, the people you encounter, and your environment is crucial for being at peace with your life.

2) Irreverence--I believe a certain amount of iconoclastic behavior is healthy and necessary to keep the world interesting and innovative. I have frequently been accused of being crass or offensive, but I believe strongly in keeping an open mind and an open dialogue. I dislike the idea that there are some topics that "just shouldn't be talked about;" I'm willing to have a conversation about anything. I do get passionate/heated about certain topics, though, particularly those involving social justice issues.

3) Art--This is a broad category, but generally speaking I think artistic endeavors have the ability to communicate in ways that aren't possible in day-to-day speech. I've found my own connection to this medium through music, but appreciate many kinds of art.

4) Imagination--When life is viewed in the most somber and serious of ways, it can often be boring and stale. I truly value the people who can turn mundane activities like "getting coffee" or "cooking dinner" or "going to work" into fun and uplifting experiences, and strive to do the same in my own life.

5) Curiosity--I'm always interested in exploring different facets of the world, and like to be around other like-minded people. I'm the type who can't go on a Wikipedia article without clicking all the extraneous links, and going on a learning adventure. I love being around people who can teach me something new!

6) Laughter--A day without laughter is a day wasted. I'm professional and mature when the situation calls for it, but at my core I'll always be goofy and socially awkward and quirky. Being around people who can find humor and joy in the world is important to me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My brain skips around a lot. Occasionally I can achieve moments of hyper-focus where I zero in on something as the hours melt away, but usually it's a slew of random thoughts. Sometimes it's serious things like the tragic state of modern politics, and our country's downfall from the peak of geopolitics. Frequently it's something more mundane, though, like what kind of latte I want or what I should eat for dinner.

I've been dabbling in meditation lately, also, which has led to some thoughts on myself, and my relation to the world. This is something I'd like to talk about with others, if you're into that kind of thing at all.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having adventures, whether home or abroad!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I sing in the shower. I have impromptu dance parties in my apartment. I make jokes at appropriate and inappropriate times. I dream up stories that I'll never finish. I make faces at myself in the mirror. I try new recipes and always eat the results. I like it when my socks have pictures on them and/or don't match. I know more about Batman than about some of my cousins. I like to find shapes in the clouds. Sometimes I still feel like a child who's just pretending to be an adult. I recognize my limitations, but don't let them stand in my way, and take pride in being the interesting person that I am.
You should message me if
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If you liked my profile and you feel so inclined. A solid imagination, a sense of humor, an open mind, and an interesting first line will guarantee you an answer back!

I'm hoping to meet friendly, active people who want to get coffee or go for a hike, and not just chat online all day.