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engender_malady

43 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 19
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Technology
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"Abstinence engenders maladies" -- Shakespeare

Tried creating a new profile, but the voyage of self discovery and improvement means I'm not the man I was even just a couple years ago.

My life is a revolving costume cocktail party. While libations do play an important role, company is critical.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I play music, spend time with the puppy, send off a resume once in a while.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Findind quick solutions.
Making things better.
Enabling.
Providing a good time.
Drinking.
Cuddling.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That would be the beard, Bob.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I <3 books, but haven't been reading much recently. Lots of sci-fi, cyberpunk, classics, noir. In the age of ebooks, it makes it difficult to see someone's soul on a bookshelf, mine included...

I'm a movie whore. Don't make it to the theater nearly enough, but will probably start spending weekends hibernating and catching up on things soon. Noir, sci-fi, period pieces.

Recently I've been enveloped in the Avengers universe, both movies and TV. The story threads that exist between the separate entities fascinate me.

Most of the music I own is old. Lots of industrial and swing with some other stuff thrown in. It's not uncommon for me to throw a random streaming trance/electronica station when I'm working. It gives my mind something to do, but isn't distinctive enough to be distracting.

Food = yes. I eat well at work. We typically go out 3 days/week to decent restaurants. It's not uncommon for me to drag friends out to dinner so I can fill the gaps for the few things my coworkers won't eat. Sushi, Indian, Thai, Vietnamese, Chinese, Cuban, Italian, American, German, all of it!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
This is tough, as I've lived with nothing.

1) My hitchiker's guide. (iPad) I use it all the time for everything.

2) A decent bed

3) Alone time

4) Biscuits and cheese. That is not a euphemism. Blood sugar crashes are a bitch.

5) Intimate contact. While it won't kill me if I don't have it, life is pretty unpleasant otherwise.

6) Mandolin!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why don't more companies allow dogs?
Will my next job require pants?
Can I call it work if it doesn't cause calluses?
Do I want to pack up the dog and busk dressed as a leprechaun outside the Guinness brewery in Dublin?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sitting at home playing music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm pretty when I'm drunk.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're up for a good time.

You want to balance lazy nights in with crazy nights out.

You think "Yes" is the sexiest word ever.