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54 Newcastle, Australia Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Has a kid
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
To find out if the following is true you'll just have to take a tiny risk, chat with me and find out for yourself.

I am quite expressive - you will never be in any doubt about how I feel. I'm an extrovert, and an optimist. That can make me a bit tiring to be around. Fortunately, I am not in the least possessive.

I enjoy the absurd tests here, and am inordinately proud of scoring Captain Jack as the Dr. Who companion I most closely resemble. Not in dress sense unfortunately.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am rebuilding my circus after a series of calamities. This process delights me. Repairing the big top will take half of this year.

More broadly, I am living with intensity and gratitude, with love and adventure.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being me. That's all. I enjoy my own company, that of one or two others (at a time) and wild loud parties. Professionally, I am good at teaching, singing, physical performance and engineering. I am good at love in many forms.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Sigh, probably that I am short. Then that I am oddly happy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I prefer people over most of those things, although I am happy to combine them. I like live theater of most kinds, and live music.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Connection - generally I mean with a lover, but with very close friends too. This is more important than sleep to me. Without it I get sad. It's partly why I am on okcupid. its also one of the driving forces of my life.

Productivity - I need to feel as if I am achieving something. fortunately I run my own business, so getting that is easy.

Pleasure - food, sex, nature, talking, theater, singing. And that is the other reason I'm on this site. Sex is inherently shared, but I like to share other pleasure as well.

Community - I live in a small town. Its important to me that I know who lives around me.

Learning - I love it and need it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why people are doing the things they are doing.
What I am going to do next, and with whom.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't lead a life with much pattern. Varies widely. I go to my favorite pub and listen to a live band and chat with friends, stay home, visit friends. Sometimes, I work, which isn't as sad as it sounds - I love my work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I actually am private and won't put private things on the internet.
You should message me if
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* you want to, and you think we might click. I answered lots of questions to help with that last bit. And
* you have a lot of positive directed energy or at least no problem being around someone like that. And
* you have got over short partner syndrome. :)