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46 Berkeley, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 31–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:39am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs
English, Italian, Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Happy to have awesome kids, a great job, live in the bay area, have good friends and enjoy fun hobbies. In short cheerful, easy going and nerdy.

Allow me to demonstrate my nerdiness with a bullet point summary of things you might want to know about me:
- Father of two cute, smart, sweet and funny kids, 7 and 9 years old. I have the kids 25% time during the school year, and they spend their summers in Italy with their grandparents.
- Like salsa dancing and other couples dancing. Trying to learn salsa rueda lately.
- Health conscious, active and reflective person. I particularly enjoy hiking and skiing.
- Enjoy having some quiet time at home to read, meditate, cook and play guitar.
- More sweet than snarky.
What I’m doing with my life
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Raising two great kids.
Estuarine hydrodynamics research.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Honesty. Learning new things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My all time favorite is probably Straight Man by Richard Russo. My last great read was The Name of the Wind. I am always in the middle of at least 3 books.

Blade Runner & other thoughtful science fiction, Women on the Verge of a Nervous Breakdown & everything else by Almodovar, anything funny.

I don't own a TV but I loved the Battlestar Gallactica series (just in case you haven't figured out by now that I am a nerd).

Berta Rojas, 0ld 97s, Big Star, Wilco, Radiohead, David Russell, Spoon, Belle & Sebastian, Camera Obscura, Eisley, Weezer, Bettie Serveert, Matthew Sweet, hellogoodbye, etc.

Almost everything but particularly Japanese food. Lately my favorite restaurant is Ippuku.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids, coffee, music, guitar, bacon, books
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to think less and be more present.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dancing salsa or with my kids.
You should message me if
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You are genuine and compassionate
You are active and fun, whether in an introverted or extroverted way