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fightinertia

36 F Philadelphia, PA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 21
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on med school
Job
Medicine
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
This is a toughy, but I feel like the subsequent questions do a pretty good job at answering this one --- so I'll just make a list of qualities I appreciate and look for: patience, compassion, confidence, quirkiness, a love for animals, a fondness for the absurd, an open mind, humility, a quick wit, a sense of humor that I can identify with, an appreciation for the arts, reverence for nature, progressive politics, and a pretty face.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a second year vet student at Penn. With Summer break just beginning, I feel this huge sense of relief and freedom! I live in West Philly and am excited to take advantage of all the fun things it has to offer. I'm currently working at a shelter and interning at a vet hospital for the next 3 months, then back to school full-time.

Otherwise, doing my best to appreciate all the goodness and beauty in the world and hopefully playing a small part in mitigating its ugliness.
I’m really good at
parallel parking, being consistently 3-8 minutes late, that break-dancing move called the worm/snake, looking at things objectively, veinipuncture (I'm not a vampire, I've just have worked as a vet tech for a while), cooking breakfast foods, listening, (over)analyzing, making friends with small, fiesty (read: mean) dogs, and hopefully some other stuff too.
The first things people usually notice about me
I dunno, different people notice different things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: The National, David Bowie, Aimee Mann, Talking Heads, Neil Young, Lou Reed, The Velvet Underground, Aretha Franklin,The Beatles, Belle and Sebastian, Camera Obscura, MGMT, The XX, Pomplamoose, Jenny Lewis, She and Him (admittedly, mostly for Zooey), Adele, Arcade Fire, Phoenix, REM, Wilco, David Gray, most popular 60s, 70s soul and motown (and Led Zeppelin), cheesy 80s and 90s (the cheesy 00s isn't old enough to spark my nostalgia neurons yet).

Books and Movies: I have this weird thing where I really can't recall much of anything about books/movies beyond the general plot within about a week of reading/watching. This annoying phenomenon is largely independent of how much I enjoyed it. So, don't count on me to rehash and analyze movies we both love (or atleast I seem to recall having loved). Having said that I really enjoyed The Red Tent, Flesh and Blood, Me Talk Pretty One Day, Goonies, Being John Malkovich, Royal Tenenbaums, Transamerica, American Beauty, Requiem for a Dream, to name a very select few.

Food: Luckily I do not have food amnesia so it is easy for me to remember what I like. However, I don't feel like naming foods I like right now. These lists are taking a lot out of me. I consider myself to be a decent cook. I've recently discovered the wonder that are smoothies....I know I'm a little late. I eat a lot of vegetarian-y food, but also eat a little a lot of chicken. I try to stay away from red meat...although tonight I had a steak wrapped in bacon...oh well. I try to be conscious of where my food comes from. I enjoy most "ethnic" foods...Italian is probably the type I like the least. It just all seems like the same 5 ingredients put together in slightly ways. No offense Italians...I do still enjoy it.
The six things I could never do without
hope
showers
my sanity
animals
this question is silly - I don't really need anything except the the basics....ya know....food, water, shelter, etc and the other basic human needs...love, human connection, downtime. This question needs to be asked in a different way if okcupid wants me to tell you that I really like/love the internet, music, NPR, West Philly, my work, and family.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Besides veterinary medicine and work...just a random mix of stimuli that crosses my path: the subject of a recently seen documentary, the situation of the Philly school system, the plight of pitbulls and shelter animals in general, where my career will take me, projects for the summer, how to be more present.
On a typical Friday night I am
A week ago, the answer would have been most likely studying...not anymore:) I prefer low key hangouts at friends' houses...especially if there's a fire, the music's good, and the beers are flowing. Going out can be fun, but often not worth the money. I'm pretty frugal as I'm living off student loans.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can't wink my right eye... or see above re: being cheap.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you feel so inclined.