FIXED Despite OkCupid's former insistence that I was female, I've checked and I'm male.... for sure. So if you're another guy who's turned on by my general directness about sex stuff and lewdness and hopes to find that I'm a woman like that, too bad. /FIXED

As myself, I know very well what I'm like, but I find that even with that intimate and long-term experience, I'm not particularly consistent with what I expect. Perhaps rational is too strong a word....

P.S.: I tend to think that's true for most humans

Finishing my first year in a lawyer job that doesn't eat my whole life, so I'm enjoying having one again. Slowly returning to normal personhood. STILL working on healthy after that little unpleasantness called law school and starting out working as a lawyer.

Wasting too much time on OKC. A year ago I had great fun taking the IQ adventure test. Here's my score: http://www.okcupid.com/iqadventure?describe=Math+%28116%29&score=9541006

More to come, someday, maybe.

Cooking, esp. Italian and Thai (and I don't mean just red sauce and as hot as you can make it - though both are nice sometimes).

Opinions.

More to come here, too. Sloooowly

Let me know

OololawantsoO noticed er1cez is not necessarily looking for anything long term.

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Long lists which vary. Right now, I'm updating my reading list so I can talk to the hipsters - After all, I can't avoid Neil Gaiman & Chuck Palahniuk forever.

Last year, I was enjoying Michael McGarrity's New Mexico cop-with-a-long-distance-marriage-to-a-female-military-officer mysteries and Stephen White's Boulder, Colorado psychologist-married-to-an ADA-with-MS mysteries.

NON-FICTION: "Summer for the gods : the Scopes trial and America's continuing debate over science and religion " by Edward J. Larson. A great read and an insightful window into the world of Christian evangelism. Very relevant today if you wonder how those folks at the health care town hall meetings can possibly believe all this stuff you know absolutely isn't true.

I'm waiting for the library to tell me that the books about genetics I reserved after reading Michael Crichton's last book, Next, are ready to pick up. Oops, I have to put on reserve again, missed picking them up. (Larson, above, was one of these.)

Movies: With an 8 & 12 yr. old, I'm truly expert in G, PG, Disney and old cartoon & sitcom. Not so much on current, real movies, until (my kids are older &) I get a chance to catch up again.

Music: that list goes on forever, but I can no longer tolerate anyone playing bluegrass within 50 miles. Rilo Kiley is a hero. I just listened to Seal's Soul CD (a b'day gift). I liked it but it made me long for the originals: Curtis Mayfield, Otis Redding, James Brown when he was younger, etc.

More coming here too!

Oy vay!

Yup.

pizza & movie (DVD) night with my girls

You're a tad adventurous, kinky or just curious; it will definitely help if you're a woman or a het couple.

Actually, I'm wondering if OKC can help me find some new guy friends as well. Since I've been caught up in career, school, & parenting the past few years, I've had little time to make new friendships or maintain them until now.

I'll probably say even more here, eventually.