I am imaginative, playful and thoughtful in a place where people want to maintain fictions of separateness. I believe difference is a good thing -- helps us struggle to realize the whole/holy. That said, I admit that my friends share a lot of my views on life and the world and what not. However, I am looking for someone who is "hip", flexible, broad-minded, fun and funny, engaged (not passive) and savvy.
I have friends -- great friends even. Friends in places high and low, but that is not the same as having someone to spend time with and do things with. After tomcat-ing and creating some pretty ridiculous relationship memes that were really tilting windmills, I think I am ready to forge something with someone. Dating, sure. Sexy times, why not. But I am looking for someone that makes my day just that much better. Like, my days are gonna be as good as I can make them, but then that someone turns the volume up... and I would like to be that for that person, too.
I feel new to all this. I never really dated and let things go slow. But I am finding that I like it when my heart warms up to someone. I like it when I feel like... totally enchanted (knowing it's me and not outside... boundaries and alladat). I am relearning my emotional landscape because I never had a chance to when I was younger. So, if you need someone to be emotionless, non-committal, breezy, light and brief -- I am not your person. Also, I am not for cloying, over-bearing, clingy... I want the nice balance, but for myself -- right?
I am gay. I have a penis. And we have feelings and we like them. Makes us feel human and feeling human is good. :)
I am a mass of selected influences and bad choices.
But that's everyone.
INFj, Libra/Scorpio cusp Sun, Gemini/Taurus cusp Moon and Gemini Ascendant. Wood Rabbit generation Metal Ox personality. Radical Faerie -- Songbird, Studied voice, literature (realism/postmod), writing poetry, nonfiction, fiction. Read copious amounts of graphic novels/comics. Politically, my concerns are small and personal.
Like thrift shops, fashion, picture-taking (as opposed to photography), enjoying the natural world.
Watch Project Runway, Misfits, True Blood, Torchwood, Dr. Who, Game of Thrones. Naruto Shippuden, queer movies (Deleted Scenes, Female Trouble), documentaries , sitcoms and porn.
Desires:Exploring the now with someone awesome.
Tend towards being perceptive rather than judgmental.