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ergomdw

45 Los Angeles, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 34–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Feb 6
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism
Sign
Virgo
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Originally from NYC, I am a Taoist/Buddhist in belief that seeks balance in a world full of contradictions that make perfect sense (That by the way, is not code for bald guy wearing an orange robe singing and dancing at airports. OK, I dance at airports, you got me there).

In all aspects of my life, I consistently strive for integrity and congruency between action and speech. I always strive to bring my heart to the table whether it be in a love relationship, with my family, work, play or just kicking back.

I am also... a loving, son, brother and friend (unafraid to speak his mind). An entrepreneur with a conscience. A dancer (Swing, Street and a bit of Latin). A closet chef. A networking junkie (maybe not a junkie... I can stop any time). A world traveler ...who still makes time to contemplate life's' eccentricities and infinite spiritual lessons. And a Soccer player (agressive and fearless, yet still a gentleman on and off the field).

I seek a partner not a puppet. An interdependent free thinker who knows when to lead and when to follow, how to give and how to receive. One with beauty and brains and the spiritual/emotional fortitude to back it up.

TOGETHER, VULNERABILITY WILL BE OUR STRENGTH. COMMITMENT WILL BE OUR FOUNDATION. COMPASSION WILL BE OUR SUSTENANCE. LAUGHTER WILL BE OUR MEDICINE. AND WHEN WORDS FAIL US, INTUITION WILL BE OUR GUIDE

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What I’m doing with my life
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Fighting the good fight against childhood obesity (a big fan of Jamie Oliver). I am a personal trainer and soccer coach for children ages 3 and up. I love what I do and enjoy the freedom of owning my own business. Best of all, I get to work with my FAMILY!
I’m really good at
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Reading ALL the profiles and questions for those who pique my interest
The first things people usually notice about me
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My green/hazel eyes which is unique for an Asian whose parents are both Chinese. I fit right in when I lived in Hawai'i for 7 years.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Alchemist and anything else by Paulo Coelho, The Prophet, Spiritual literature by Thich Nhat Hanh, Caroline Myss and The Dalai Lama.

Finance/Economics: Aftershock, Rich Dad, Poor Dad and anything else by Robert Kiyosaki.

Soccer games for kids