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28 Richmond, VA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Working on two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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My names Erik.

Just recently had some stuff happen that will change my situation in the next year. There's a high chance I will be moving to Virginia. So as of now, I'm only looking for friends. Not Fwb, I'm not that type of guy. So if you want a new friend to hang out with over the next few months, feel free to message me. As of now, I probably won't be initiating anything. I will reply tho.

Update: I am still in Santa Ana (Orange County), California.
I will be moving to Virginia for sure, roughly in July of 2015. I am going to update my location to Richmond, mainly because that's the area I plan on moving to. I am looking to get to know people now so that way when I get there, I'll know someone and hopefully someone can show me around. I am not looking for anything in anyway romantic right now. Once I move, I will be open to a relationship if something comes of it.

I wanted to add some key stuff here about me and what I'm looking for.

I'm very passionate about video games, I do not play all day or even everyday. I play when I have nothing else to do and I'm home. I am very passionate about the stories that people create. Some of my favorite games are Assassin's Creed series, Uncharted Series, The Last of Us, and Dragon Age. If you do not like the fact that I play games, then it won't work, you don't have to play, just understand that I enjoy playing.

I am not a sports guy, I'd rather play the sport than watch it. I do not have any favorite teams. If you're passionate about sports and looking for a guy who is also passionate about sports, that's not me. I don't mind dating someone who enjoys watching sports or wants to go to games. I am fine with that, I just don't want someone who is the type that must see their team play every time, or have to watch them play.

I do not smoke anything of any kind. I am not 420 friendly. I've tried dating someone who smoked, it didn't work out and personally, I just don't want to be around someone who smokes. It's fine if that's what people want to do. It's just not for me.

Drinking, I do not drink often, at most maybe once a month. I do not go clubbing or to bars. Drinking is a bit of a touchy subject with my family, which is why I do not drink. I don't mind someone who drinks once in a while, but if it's a weekly thing about getting drunk or even just tipsy, then that's not for me either.

I know, that all sounds like negative stuff, but the thing is, I know what I want and what I don't want. I am not going to settle for less anymore. I am a big kid at heart, I love my nephew and niece, I spend a lot of time with them. I love my dog and cat, yes I have 1 of each. The dog is named Rocky, and yes he's a Boxer :P The cat is named Bubba, it's a long story how he got his name. Bubba is going on 12 or 13 years old and still acts like a little 20lb kitten. I enjoy watching Movies, reading books, some T.V. shows, and playing video games. Anything that has an interesting story to it.

I'm also very passionate about my stories I am writing. I think I've mentioned them further down on my profile a couple times :P

I want someone I can go out and explore the world with, and since I am moving to VA in a few months, there's a lot for me to explore out there. I am also a romantic at heart. A lot has happened in my life to make me doubt and not trust very easy, but, I am still looking for someone to spend my life with.

Anyways, I think this is enough for now. I'm open to chatting if someone wants to talk.
What I’m doing with my life
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Re-answering OKC questions. This is an old profile, and I don't think I'd answer all these questions the same way.

Cleaning up my OKC page when I'm bored.

Update: I'm writing a fantasy book, I do not have a name for it yet. I do have main characters, plot, timeline of events, all written down. I have roughly 70 Pages written down, beginning to end of the book, I just need to add more details to it. I'm looking for someone who has a creative mind and who'd like to talk about our ideas for writing. I can help you if you're writing a book, I have a lot of crazy ideas for stories. My book is going to be a series, I have 4 books planned out so far, possibly a 5th book that I'm toying with an idea about, which would take place prior to the current book I am writing. Meaning the book I'm writing would be book 2 in the series.

I'm also looking for someone who can sketch. I would love to see if someone can do concept sketches for my characters to help me get a good idea set in stone on their looks and details.
I’m really good at
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Claw Machines.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've been told my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Last Apprentice
Percy Jackson
Dragon Realm

How to Train Your Dragon 1 & 2
Kong Fu Panda 1 & 2
Saw Series
Rocky Series
Hot Fuzz
Die hard series (anything with Bruce willis)
Iron Man Trilogy
Captain America Winter Soldier
Tango and Cash
Saving Private Ryan
Despicable me 1 & 2
Dark Knight
Transformers Series
Dead Silence
Odd Thomas
Planet of the Apes (James Franco Movie)
Dinner for Schmucks

TV Shows:
Super Natural
The Killing
Prison Break
The Mentalist
Family Guy
American Dad

Rise Against
Maroon 5
Avenged Sevenfold
Bullet for my Valentine
The Neighborhood
Bad meets Evil
Brick, in mortar
Capital Cities
Drowning Pool
Egypt Central
Non Point
Hollywood Undead
Imagine Dragons
Kottonmouth Kings
Lost Prophets
New Politics
Nine Inch Nails
Plain White T's
Vampire weekend

El Torito
The Habbit
Farmer Boys
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Work and my stories I'm writing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Maybe seeing a movie, poker with friends, or netflix at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Trust issues, I know everyone has had their problems in the past with relationships too. It's not that I don't trust someone, it's that I'm more cautious about getting too close to them emotionally. Something like that, if it makes any sense.
You should message me if
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I'm not really sure what I'm looking for on here at the moment. I'm currently in the process of Updating my profile.

If you want to message me, feel free. I do not know if I will reply, for a few reasons. I may not know how to respond to your message. Specially if it's just one of those "Hey how are you?" type messages.

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