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ericbodwell

43 M Albuquerque, NM

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–49
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:20pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Yiddish (Poorly), Other (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Oh birthdays' everybody gets older. I currently love that my profile pic is from a place that is closed. I am only dreaming. This is a cry to the void. I believe in honesty first and foremost. No games. I am straightforward. I love the spontaneous, and exploring creativity in all forms. I want to communicate ideas and dreams freely. I want to have a date speaking via stream of consciousness over 32 hours, then spend another 12 interpreting each other's non-verbals.

I love every facet of life. Like a roller coaster.

I think I have a crush on every woman who lists height as a requirement in a relationship. I am trying to find my largest enemy percentage on OKCupid to see if I can befriend her.

I'm a pretty good juggler.

I am honest, spontaneous, and curious

I have been very proud of myself for losing 50 pounds in the last year. My heart thanks me, now if I could quit smoking I would be in even better shape. I think I want to take up Yoga. If I lose anymore weight, I will no longer be curvy. I am no longer plump and my legs are steely trees.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am apparently on the hustle now. After working for an attorney as a research assistant. I am again underemployed. Don't cry for me Argentina! I guess I will go back to school this spring. The economy is blech!

I am always involved in theater, slam poetry, and most recently making movies. I consider myself an actor but have done backstage work several times. If I could play an instrument I would (ok, I play the juice harp). I do love to sing without being to self-conscious, and rarely in tune.

I continue to pursue these things for the satisfaction of making art happen. Sometimes, I actually get paid.

As of July 19th, I will be appearing in the Vortex's version of 'Loot' by Joe Orton. Lines, lines, lines. Ok, that was really fun. Now working on other projects. 11/14/11.

I am currently waging a war against the Evil Empire known as Comcast! I plan on starting a blog about how horrible their customer service is. Don't believe their hype!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making the most out of any situation. I am the eternal optimist. Scrabble and watching movies. I am super great at making people laugh! I have ears for venting. I am a superb hugger.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am really friendly and usually in good spirits. People have told me they would pay me to be in their audience because of my contagious variety of laughs. Also, no one ever says I am downer.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love to cook all kinds of food. I have recently worked on vegetarian dishes but I consider myself a first-rate New Mexican cook. I just made a really awesome Chile Con Queso. Thai is also one of my favorites. I am so going to make some jerk chicken for my soccer party this weekend.

I adore Elvis Costello

Most recently I have read The Tipping Point, Hegemony or Survival, The Grifters, and How to Rig an Election. Wow, I have read a ton of stuff since I wrote this. Working on Rabbit, Run by Updike for the book club. Oh boy, re-reading the way of life by Lao Tzu.

I'll always have a soft spot for Camus.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I made a deal with My Morning Jacket that we would only listen to Andrew Bird then the Flaming Lips found out I was exclusive and that was that. Lately the Fleet Foxes have been peeping me and I had a visit from a Panda Bear, I think it was in the Decemberists. I am completely enamored with Little Dragon right now.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what's next. Different things to do with my facial hair. Currently working with the Zach Galifianakis. **UPDATE - Now going for the Anton Lavey look** **RE-UP - No shaving leads back to Zach** K it is July 20, 2011 and I have declared fun with facial hair Summer. I now have what I am going to call the Quincy Adams. Shaping into english bobby look. 10/13/2011 - Removed almost all facial hair until it comes back at least.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at the theater, coffee shop, or listening to live music. Alternatively, I am doing laundry.

Counting headlights on the highway and standing still.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Intellect and character are sexier than physical appearance. I have numerous scars from a near fatal motorcycle accident.
You should message me if
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If you like a good adventure and you are not content with settling.

You like taller men, because I probably have a crush on you.

To tell you about myself, I can say that I am a romantic and sexy guy, a confident person and confident of finding someone to spend time with, hang out with and have lots of fun with. I would like to meet a lady, who will love me and be loved back. I am willing to try out anything for experience. I believe money is not everything rather love is the the ultimate thing in any good and serious relationship. I sound like a hippy right there, oh yeah.