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Kinky_Nerd

47 M Old Saybrook, CT

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–57
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:30pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am outgoing. Friendly. Inappropriate in a fun way. A good conversationalist. A cunning linguist! I like to flirt, love to kiss, love to dance. I like to ride my motorcycle in nice weather.

Among other things, I am looking for a riding partner, either who has her own bike or is willing to jump on the back of mine, which is a 2008 Yamaha V-Star 650 Silverado. Or a rope partner, that's fun, too! ;-) Kink is a fun occasional diversion. The nerd part I live 24/7.

I love nice legs and cute feet, pretty smiles and good laughs. Good kissers.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Work. Kids. Reserves. But also...

I'm engaged to and having grand new adventures with an awesome, sexy, fun, thoughtful, open-minded and wonderful woman, http://www.okcupid.com/profile/_Jinkies_ , who gets me and has such a fresh, exciting perspective on life that I feel like the luckiest man in the nicest, classiest, coolest candy store around!!

My fiance and I keep no secrets. If you and I hit it off, you will certainly meet her at some point.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Back and foot rubs. I have been told by many that I have magic hands. I love to kiss and touch. I'm learning I'm a serious giver...my quiz profile is The Backrubber, and it's right on the money. I will gladly spend an hour making someone feel good - It makes me happy to give pleasure to another.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My inappropriate sense of humor. I'm funny, outgoing, make friends easily, and laid back, but I get a lot done. And I'm comfortable talking about very personal things! ;-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have to admit I like urban fantasy...yeah, I've read Twilight, and all the Sookie Stackhouse and Anita Blake books and a bunch of others. Meredith Gentry series, too (Laurell K. Hamilton). Science Fiction - all of it. Harry Potter books were very enjoyable; my experience was affected by having seen several of the movies before I read the series; all the pictures in my head featured the movie actors/actresses!

Other great reads are Sex at Dawn, What Women Want, The Ethical Slut, Opening Up, and Insatiable Wives!

** Inappropriate Sense of Humor Alert ** Some other great titles, if they existed, that would be sure to get me to read them would be: "Hotwife Hotties: A Felcher's Guide to Keeping it Clean", and "Sucking Her Toes, Ten Ways To Tickle Her Fancy". Also, Literotica.com has many great, free reads! ......you were warned!!

I like all kinds of movies - some favorites are Princess Bride, My Best Friends Girl, Monty Python. One of my all-time favorites is A Knight's Tale. Moulin Rouge! Momma Mia! Grease. The Muppet Movie. Pitch Perfect. I like live musicals and concerts. And porn. Of course..

All kinds of music, but mostly popular, alternative, and grunge. I also listen to NPR almost every workday, I donate to it, and am very glad it's there!

I love all kinds of food. Not picky.

I don't watch a lot of TV...nothing against it, but I'm usually doing something else. Netflix and Hulu are my friends! Being Human. Breaking Bad. Firefly. Burn Notice. The 4400. Chuck. Six Feet Under. Lost Girl. Arrow. Continuum. Dexter. And maybe Glee. Maybe. Sometimes. *facepalm
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my kids, my GGG GF, a sense of contributing to society, good books, hot tubs, back scratches, hugs and kisses and touches.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Doing the best for my kids. Sometimes feeling guilty for not doing all the things with them that I think of doing. Also often am thinking about my job, pop culture, women, science fiction, fantasy, politics, world events, and new opportunities.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Giving cute friends and neighbors back and foot rubs. Impromptu barbecues and swim parties. Looking for a better free porn site. Tying down my GF for some kinky fun. Thinking naughty thoughts.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You can see more of me...literally!...on FL. If you are too, let's talk more. ;-)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are adventurous!! You are looking for like-minded friends to hang and flirt with and have fun! You can cut through red tape with a machete.

Or you are curious. And want to talk about and maybe explore other relationship structures with someone good and safe and fun and really really cute! :-)

You want to be spoiled, you like backrubs/massages, you find anything I've written to be in any way interesting, and you don't live too far away.