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47 M Old Saybrook, CT

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:04pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Has kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Kink is a fun occasional diversion. The nerd part I live 24/7. I am
looking for a riding partner, either who has her own bike or is willing to jump on the back of mine, which is a 2008 Yamaha V-Star 650 Silverado. Or a rope partner, that's fun, too! ;-)

I am outgoing. Friendly. Inappropriate in a fun way. A good conversationalist. A cunning linguist! I like to flirt, love to kiss, love to dance. I like to ride my motorcycle in nice weather. I love nice legs and cute feet, pretty smiles and good laughs. Good kissers.
What I’m doing with my life
Work. Kids. Reserves. But also...

I'm engaged to and having grand new adventures with an awesome, sexy, fun, thoughtful, open-minded and wonderful woman who gets me and has such a fresh, exciting perspective on life that I feel like the luckiest man in the nicest, classiest, coolest candy store around!!

Our relationship structure is more out of the ordinary...though it seems to be becoming more common as time goes by and more and more marriages end and people start questioning our culture's ideas of what we've been told all our lives.

We are both post-divorce parents with kids, trying to figure things out and make the most of everything, and it is a lot of fun! We have lots of "normal" friends too, lol! Maybe we'll see you out there trivia-ing!

My fiance and I keep no secrets. If you and I hit it off, you will certainly meet her at some point.
I’m really good at
I love to kiss and touch. I'm learning I'm a serious quiz profile is The Backrubber, and it's right on the money. I will gladly spend an hour making someone feel good - backrub, footrub, touches, kisses, etc. etc. It makes me happy to give pleasure to another. I have been told by many that I have magic hands.
The first things people usually notice about me
My inappropriate sense of humor. I'm funny, outgoing, make friends easily, and laid back, but I get a lot done. And I'm comfortable talking about very personal things! ;-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have to admit I like urban fantasy...yeah, I've read Twilight, and all the Sookie Stackhouse and Anita Blake books and a bunch of others. Meredith Gentry series, too (Laurell K. Hamilton). Science Fiction - all of it. Harry Potter books were very enjoyable; my experience was affected by having seen several of the movies before I read the series; all the pictures in my head featured the movie actors/actresses!

Other great reads are Sex at Dawn, What Women Want, The Ethical Slut, Opening Up, and Insatiable Wives! Some other great titles, if they existed, that would be sure to get me to read them would be: "Hotwife Hotties: A Felcher's Guide to Keeping it Clean", and "Sucking Her Toes, Ten Ways To Tickle Her Fancy". Also, has many great, free reads! (Ummmmm, most of this paragraph is tongue-in-cheek...just in case you are not in tune with my sense of humor...)

I like all kinds of movies - some favorites are Princess Bride, My Best Friends Girl, Monty Python. One of my all-time favorites is A Knight's Tale. Moulin Rouge! Momma Mia! Grease. The Muppet Movie. Pitch Perfect. I like live musicals and concerts. And porn. Of course..

All kinds of music, but mostly popular, alternative, and grunge. I also listen to NPR almost every workday, I donate to it, and am very glad it's there!

I love all kinds of food. Not picky.

I don't watch a lot of TV...nothing against it, but I'm usually doing something else. Netflix and Hulu are my friends! Being Human. Breaking Bad. Firefly. Burn Notice. The 4400. Chuck. Six Feet Under. Lost Girl. Arrow. Continuum. And maybe Glee. Maybe. Sometimes. *facepalm
The six things I could never do without
my kids, my GGG GF, a sense of contributing to society, good books, hot tubs, back scratches, hugs and kisses and touches.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Doing the best for my kids. Sometimes feeling guilty for not doing all the things with them that I think of doing. Also often am thinking about my job, pop culture, women, science fiction, fantasy, politics, world events, and new opportunities.
On a typical Friday night I am
Giving cute friends and neighbors back and foot rubs. Impromptu barbecues and swim parties. Looking for a better free porn site. Tying down my GF for some kinky fun. Thinking naughty thoughts.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You can see more of me...literally!...on FL. If you are too, let's talk more. ;-)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–57
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You are adventurous!! You are looking for like-minded friends to hang and flirt with and have fun!

Or you are curious. And want to talk about and maybe explore other relationship structures with someone good and safe and fun and really really cute! :-)

You want to be spoiled, you like backrubs/massages, you find anything I've written to be in any way interesting, and you don't live too far away.