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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 28–57
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 26
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Has kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am outgoing. Friendly. Inappropriate in a fun way. A good conversationalist. I've seen and done a lot, been to a lot of places, but I always welcome new experiences. Always curious. It's the best cure for boredom there is!

I love great conversation over dinner, getting to know someone new. I like to flirt, love to kiss, love to dance. I like to ride my motorcycle in nice weather.

I would also welcome a new riding partner, either who has her own bike or is willing to jump on the back of mine, which is a 2015 Yamaha V-Star 950. Or a rope partner, that's fun, too! ;-) Kink is a fun occasional diversion. The nerd part I live 24/7.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Work. Kids. Reserves. But also...

I'm engaged to and having grand new adventures with an awesome, sexy, fun, thoughtful, open-minded and wonderful woman who gets me and has such a fresh, exciting perspective on life that I feel like the luckiest man in the nicest, classiest, coolest candy store around!!

My fiance and I keep no secrets. If you and I hit it off, you will certainly meet her at some point.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, carrying my half of an interesting conversation. Fixing things. Helping out. Being responsible. I'm learning I'm a serious quiz profile is The Backrubber, and it's right on the money. I will gladly spend an hour making someone feel good - It makes me happy to give pleasure to another.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My inappropriate sense of humor. I'm funny, outgoing, make friends easily, and laid back, but I get a lot done. And I'm comfortable talking about very personal things! ;-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have to admit I like urban fantasy...yeah, I've read Twilight, and all the Sookie Stackhouse and Anita Blake books and a bunch of others. Meredith Gentry series, too (Laurell K. Hamilton). Science Fiction - all of it. Harry Potter books were very enjoyable; my experience was affected by having seen several of the movies before I read the series; all the pictures in my head featured the movie actors/actresses!

Other great reads are Sex at Dawn, What Women Want, The Ethical Slut, Opening Up, and Insatiable Wives!

** Inappropriate Sense of Humor Alert ** Some other great titles, if they existed, that would be sure to get me to read them would be: "Hotwife Hotties: Keeping It Clean", and "Sucking Her Toes: Ten Ways To Tickle Her Fancy". Also, has many great, free reads! were warned!!

I like all kinds of movies - some favorites are Princess Bride, My Best Friends Girl, Monty Python. One of my all-time favorites is A Knight's Tale. Moulin Rouge! Momma Mia! Grease. The Muppet Movie. Pitch Perfect. I like live musicals and concerts. And porn. Of course...

I speak German, but only Porn German.."ohhhh yaaaahhhhh, oooohhhh yaaaaaaahhhh!!"

All kinds of music, but mostly popular, alternative, and grunge. I also listen to NPR almost every workday, I donate to it, and am very glad it's there!

I love all kinds of food. Not picky.

I don't watch a lot of live TV...nothing against it, but I'm usually doing something else. Netflix and Hulu are my friends! Being Human. Breaking Bad. Firefly. Burn Notice. The 4400. Chuck. Six Feet Under. Lost Girl. Continuum. Dexter. OITNB. X-Files. And maybe Glee. Maybe. Sometimes. *facepalm
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my kids, my GGG GF, a sense of contributing to society, good books, hot tubs, back scratches, hugs and kisses and touches.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Doing the best for my kids. Sometimes feeling guilty for not doing all the things with them that I think of doing. Also often am thinking about my job, pop culture, women, science fiction, fantasy , politics, world events, and new opportunities.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Giving cute friends and neighbors back and foot rubs. Impromptu barbecues and swim parties. Exploring some kinky fun. Thinking naughty thoughts.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You can see more of me...literally!...on FL. If you are too, let's talk more. ;-)

I love nice legs and cute feet, pretty smiles and good laughs. Good kissers. I love to kiss and touch. I have been told by many that I have magic hands.
You should message me if
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I like getting messages so go ahead! I'm responsive, articulate, and really really cute!! :-)

You are adventurous and looking for a like-minded friend to hang and flirt and have fun with. You like short skirts, long jackets, and can cut through red tape with a machete.

Or you really like good back rubs/massages; you find anything I've written to be in any way interesting, and you don't live too far away.