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ericthewizard

37 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 26
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
University
Job
Medicine
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
First off... I am a magical creature. I've spent a large part of my life trying to understand the mechanics of the universe, how our reality shows up for us, and how we collectively create the world. It's important to find a partner that can have conversation with me around this at a level that brings me insight and growth. Some subjects that I long to have conversations around: philosophy, art, mystical traditions, sex, politics (beyond just they're wrong and I'm right), trajectory of the planet, the nature of magic, science (especially quantum mechanics), botany, HISTORY. I love a good storyteller.

I'm a earthy, sensual being. Physical intimacy is very important to me and I want this in my relationships or I will not feel fulfilled over a long term. Sex for me is a beautiful way to establish a communication link that sometimes can't be contained by words. I am also HIV positive, and I prefer that Hiv-negative men do some self-refection around this before they initiate anything with me. I have a preference to date other HIV-positive men; however, my last two most intense relationships were with HIV negative me (one of which was for 7 years).

Deep honesty and communication are essential. My ideal is psychic linking - I've experienced this before and it was amazing. I get into relationship to express the loving side of myself and also to see myself. As Rumi would call it, seeing your reflection in a polished mirror. This happens best when people can transmit the full truth.

I love to travel and I work to make it happen more often in my life. I'm looking for an adventure mate. I want to see all the backroads and the bell towers. I'd love it if I knew where every item in your backpack is, and you in mine. I also really enjoy bike touring and trail running - two of my favorite ways to see the countryside (I know lots of the faerie pathways through cities). I'm looking for someone who has enough physical strength and stamina to really find some adventure alongside me. And if you can teach me new ways to adventure, I'm really open to it. Some things I'd love to explore with someone: surfing, rock-climbing, sailing, rafting. I also did the Aids Lifecycle 10, and will be doing ALC 12 this year. I've been to Burning Man 8 years, and will likely go again this year. I'll probably also do Symbiosis and possibly some South American festivals.

My main focus now is on my healing practice. I work with healing the subconscious mind using a number of tools, therapies and techniques. People who are doing work that is somehow improving the world get high marks in my book. People who can do this and also have prosperity get even higher marks. Contribution + prosperity + free time = the best!

I also live in a 22-person intentional community full of healers, artists, and people committed to societal transformation. If you are dating me long-term you will likely need to meet and enjoy my extended, chosen family.

I'm not a big drinker or drug user. I do however feel that I have a fairly well balanced relationship with some teacher plants and will sometimes use them to explore my thinking. I rarely drink alcohol, but I still can have fun at a bar. I can have even more fun walking through the city or nature, however.
What I’m doing with my life
Helping heal the bugs in the human software that makes up collective consciousness.
I’m really good at
*asking really good questions
*grounding people
*talking to absolutely anybody with confidence
*understanding group dynamics
*cuddling
*deep physical connection
*hopping reality bubbles
*I do great things with my hands and mouth in bed
The first things people usually notice about me
* my eyes - the twinkle, the presence and eye contact I hold
* how comfortable they feel around me
* how grounded I am
* how quickly I'm open with my feelings around them
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I've consumed self-help books like snack food since I was 12... the books have gotten less cheesy and more sublime over time.
I love Umberto Eco.
Just read Jonathan Strange and Mr. Norrell - loved it.

Movies:
Anything by Terry Gilliam - Baron Von Munchausen, Tideland, Fear and Loathing
Anything by Miyazaki - Spirited Away, Princess Mononoke
Beautiful visual spectacles
Anything that either blows or twists my mind in knots.

Shows :
Not currently addicted to anything. Have loved Alan Ball's work (Six feet Under and True Blood)

Food:
Variety is King! I love tasting things that I haven't had before. My comfort favorites are Indian and Thai. My daily meals are often a lot of greens and beans.
The six things I could never do without
Trees and forest paths,
Beautiful bodies of water,
Sunsets and Sunrises and the stars,
My journal,
My running shoes,
the support of my friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How things manifest,
The intersections of biology, physics, geology and magic
the collective conscious,
what's for breakfast,
what I'm feeling,
which patch of woods I want to delve into the most,
what I'm thankful for,
How to unlock my thinking around something.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either walking through my favorite neighborhoods, hanging with my housemates at whatever event we are throwing in the basement, or on a midnight run to the beach or up the mountaintops (especially in moonlight) If I can make it camping I will. Occasionally by Friday night I get the hankering to seek out the gays.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes I'm not as confident as I appear... and when I get really confident... it's time to change things a bit and try something new.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 29–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You have twinkly, kind, mischievous, wise eyes.
If you are committed to growth and trying to consciously choose your life
If you're fun in bed
If you like adventure and are physically able to chase it
If you're kind
If you're fucking authentic!