I'm a earthy, sensual being. Physical intimacy is very important to me and I want this in my relationships or I will not feel fulfilled over a long term. Sex for me is a beautiful way to establish a communication link that sometimes can't be contained by words. I am also HIV positive, and I prefer that Hiv-negative men do some self-refection around this before they initiate anything with me. I have a preference to date other HIV-positive men; however, my last two most intense relationships were with HIV negative me (one of which was for 7 years).
Deep honesty and communication are essential. My ideal is psychic linking - I've experienced this before and it was amazing. I get into relationship to express the loving side of myself and also to see myself. As Rumi would call it, seeing your reflection in a polished mirror. This happens best when people can transmit the full truth.
I love to travel and I work to make it happen more often in my life. I'm looking for an adventure mate. I want to see all the backroads and the bell towers. I'd love it if I knew where every item in your backpack is, and you in mine. I also really enjoy bike touring and trail running - two of my favorite ways to see the countryside (I know lots of the faerie pathways through cities). I'm looking for someone who has enough physical strength and stamina to really find some adventure alongside me. And if you can teach me new ways to adventure, I'm really open to it. Some things I'd love to explore with someone: surfing, rock-climbing, sailing, rafting. I also did the Aids Lifecycle 10, and will be doing ALC 12 this year. I've been to Burning Man 8 years, and will likely go again this year. I'll probably also do Symbiosis and possibly some South American festivals.
My main focus now is on my healing practice. I work with healing the subconscious mind using a number of tools, therapies and techniques. People who are doing work that is somehow improving the world get high marks in my book. People who can do this and also have prosperity get even higher marks. Contribution + prosperity + free time = the best!
I also live in a 22-person intentional community full of healers, artists, and people committed to societal transformation. If you are dating me long-term you will likely need to meet and enjoy my extended, chosen family.
I'm not a big drinker or drug user. I do however feel that I have a fairly well balanced relationship with some teacher plants and will sometimes use them to explore my thinking. I rarely drink alcohol, but I still can have fun at a bar. I can have even more fun walking through the city or nature, however.