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erikamethyst

32 San Jose, CA Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 1:31pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
http://markmanson.net/fuck-yes/

It'd be nice to meet someone I can laugh with, learn from, go places with (I suffer from wanderlust), and maybe just be eventually be crazy for. You in?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working! Otherwise, I'm usually doing something active, finding new places to hike, concerts to attend, adventures to embark on, and friends/family to see.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being loyal (I give my all...always), kissing, humility, affection, cooking (BUT I hate baking, sucks for your sweet tooth!), massages, being spontaneous, being a good friend, working hard for what I want, compassion, dedication, observing, being inquisitive, sarcasm, sympathy, being straightforward (I'm TOO honest sometimes), making people laugh, being a dork, laughing at myself, remembering details, people watching, being sassy (or so they say), smelling good, listening, open-mindedness, being passionate, being stubborn, meaningful conversations, arguing, getting lost and loving it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
How about you tell me....!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My favorite book is One Hundred Years of Solitude. I'll leave it at that.

I haven't owned a television in years...but I'm a big Walking Dead fan and I can probably watch Friends reruns forever.

Definitely a movie junkie. I love attending the film festivals in the Bay Area. We're lucky to have a bunch throughout the year.
I typically like art house & foreign dramas/thrillers & documentaries (social/environmental/historical). I may be the only girl who loves war movies, too. My favorite movie in 2013 was La Vie D'Adele (Blue is the Warmest Color). It's on Netflix...go watch it, go!
Volver, Broken Embraces, La Vie en Rose, Abre los Ojos, Hable Con Ella, El Mar Adentro, Crash, Amores Perros, The Skin I Live In, The Motorcycle Diaries, Y Tu Mama Tambien, Diving Bell & the Butterfly, Amélie, El Espinazo del Diablo, Garden State, Lost In Translation, Empire Records, Almost Famous, Room in Rome, The Edukators, Irreversible, Big Fish, The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo (the other two are okay), Pan's Labyrinth, Caotica Ana, Requiem for a Dream, The Thin Red Line, The Pianist, 500 Days of Summer, Clueless, Closer, The Professional, City of God, 21 Grams, Love Actually, The Secret in their Eyes, We Were Soldiers, Saving Private Ryan, The Green Mile, I can go on and on...

THE KILLERS, Chvrches, Lorde, The XX, M83, Phoenix, Arcade Fire, Metric, Rilo Kiley, The Temper Trap, Vampire Weekend, The Strokes, Regina Spektor, William Fitzsimmons, Phantogram, Crystal Castles, The Shins, Passion Pit, Silversun Pickups, Explosions in the Sky, Band of Horses, Gregory Alan Isakov, The Black Keys, Death Cab for Cutie, Oasis, Interpol, Coldplay, Bon Iver, Radiohead, Bloc Party, The Head and the Heart, Thom Yorke, Of Monsters and Men, Shakira, and a bunch of other Spanish music most of you probably have probably never even heard of...:p

Top foods: Mexican, Thai & Mediterranean/Middle Eastern & Japanese/sushi. I'm a pescatarian, other than that I'm not very picky with food as long as it's wholesome and not unhealthy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I can live without some of these more than others, obviously.

1. FAMILY
2. exercise (running, hiking & yoga)
3. good people in my life (my huge family and great friends)
4. coffeeeeeeee
5. healthy, wholesome food
6. my iPhone...meh
7. the outdoors
8. great conversations that leave you hungry for more
9. romance (and lots of it)
10. leisure time
11. dark chocolate
12. Burt's Bees chapstick
13. Pandora & Spotify
14. goals
15. WINE
16. the fog. Gotta love SF.
17. affection (getting and giving)
18. a beautiful sunset
19. cloudy days
20. the ocean
21. Carrot juice and kombucha
22. road trips
23. hot showers
24. NPR
25. TED talks
26. smell of wet dirt after it rains :)
27. cilantro & lime
28. a camera
29. random acts of kindness
30. HOPE
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I tend to wonder if one lifetime is really enough to be everything I want to be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Bright-eyed and bushy-tailed, of course :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'M. SUPER. DUPER. TICKLISH! ! !
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are Brandon Flowers :D

Just kidding!

You find me and my profile appealing, I suppose. I can take it from there and decide if you're a douche-bag or not...which would imply you're not only easy on my eyes, but you're also a true gentleman, genuine and an all-around good person :) You should be kind, compassionate, intelligent, grounded, well-spoken, honest, worldly, humble, passionate about life, just the right amount of confident, believe in sacrifices, love your FAMILY, actually willing to work to get to know the real me, and can make me laugh...aaaand if you dig weekend/outdoor adventures!

Save yourself the trouble if:
You smoke, or are a druggie, you are emotionally constipated, cannot live without fast food, have an (indoor) picture with your shirt off, or call yourself "sexy" or "amazing" on your profile, you've been told you have a bad temper, you want to play games ('cause I don't want to play with you), you are a Republican (we probably will not get along), your breath stinks, your idea of a perfect Sunday = sports on TV, you're totally still into the clubbing scene, you sweat the small stuff, you are negative and need constant cheering up, you're not in my age range (see above), you have emotional baggage, you cannot distinguish between "you're/your/its/it's/there/their/they're/than/then/to/too/two/accept/except/affect/effect," u type 2 ppl like dis, you say would of instead of would HAVE, and you know damn well that A LOT is 2 words, right? Good.

If you made it this far, hopefully my profile made you laugh...If not, lighten up, boys! :P