I suppose the best way to sum me up is, Connection.
Connection of the heart, touching others lives with empathy and understanding. Being able to connect on a deep spiritual level, a level of laughter and joy. Honoring each others separate and uniqueness while at the same time enjoying our connections and shared ways.
Connection of the mind, sharing our similar interests and fun. As well as going over and debating our differences, finding out how each other thinks and feels and experiences this thing called life. And all the while learning both more about ourselves and our world around us.
Connection of the body. Touch is so important to me, touch of a hand caressing the bark of a tree, touch of a good true deep hug from a caring friend, touch of warm lips across sensitive flesh yearning to burn in passion. Touch of all kinds is needed in me, touch that holds honor and connection in body, mind and spirit. For without the other two, the body is just sensation without true wonder.
When it comes to BDSM style play and what kind of person I am, as well as sexual orientation, well I had to come up with my own terms.
First I'm a sensualist, I enjoy sensations and fully getting into an experience. To feel all the joy and passion from a single touch.
For orientation I'm bi-sensual. By that meaning that although I can enjoy pretty people (male or female) and can enjoy rubbing my hands over them. I've never felt that gut sexual desire towards another man.
And for the kink side, I'm a service top. So I usually like to be in a dominant role. But where my pleasure comes in is the energy play between us as you go into a mind-blowing experience of extacy. I love riding another joy and passion and that is where I get my payoff for the experience.
And the last few things that are key to me:
Honesty both to each other and more importantly to ourselves.
Communication is critical in my life, I wish to be clear with my desires and needs and help those around me to be clear with theirs. For by knowing and understanding eachother we can more easily help one another accomplish them.
Polyamory, which means that I can be romantically fully in love with more than one person at a time. And I feel my partners can too. I don't really feel jealous of others spending time with, flirting, or playing with my partners. As long as there is clear communication, respect and love...it's all good. So if your interested in me romantically/sexually, please be aware that this is the way I am.
Kinky, yes I'm kinky and to me that means that sensually and sexually I'm not limited to mainstream viewpoints in what I enjoy.
I am sensual, insightful, and grounded