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40 M Melbourne, Australia

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My self-summary
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I joined OKC on New Yr's day 2014 as it dawned on me that I was thirty nine and mighty fine and my life was slipping through the stream of time and yes I'm aware that all of this has a rhyme and I'm cringing too!
So, if you are still reading, this is me. I'm hard on the outside and soft on the inside and I like to enjoy and cherish what really matters. Material things aren't all important, how we both feel inside when we look into each others eyes certainly is. I have a big heart, that's going to waste and I just want to feel connected to a woman who would like my company :)
I totally DO want to hear how your day has been as I massage away the days stress from your body but I don't want to be joined at the hip or stop you from being you. I want to be your man friend and for us to fuck like we are porn stars, to kiss as though life depended on it and to cuddle like our bodies are two matching parts of a whole.
I love life's subtle pleasures; the touch of hot water on my skin in the shower, the smell of great coffee, the taste of chocolate, the sight of sunrise over the dandenongs and sound of the waves across the bay.
"Live, love, laugh, freedom, smile," :)*
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a writer, that's my pleasure; poems, erotic fiction and a few songs
I work full time in a demanding professional role (not writing)
Gym regular to de-stress:))
Painting - when I get the urge and enough time
I volunteer regularly and also do some mentoring both of which I enjoy
Planning my next holiday escape to somewhere warm and sunny
I’m really good at
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Llistening, communication, cooking, writing, pleasing, massaging, putting out the trash :P
I get told that I'm confident and patient.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My accent?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't have a bunch of favorite this or that.
I like to discover, to explore, to be spontaneous.
I like Coldplay but I like lots of songs. I love when Chris Martin and Riri embrace on stage.
I like Bruce Willis but I like lots of actors. I enjoy the popcorn and icecream mostly and tend to forget the movie :)
I like awesome quotes, like Obama "When ignorant folks want to advertise their ignorance you don't really have to do anything, you just let them talk" but I like some oldies like "If everyone is thinking alike, then no one is thinking" Benjamin Franklin
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Are there really 6 things? Not 3 or 7, just 6 things? Who decides this stuff? If I could never do without 10 things, would that mean im different? Different is good, im just happy im breathing!
You, I guess, because I'm spending my time here looking for you :)*
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Timing and communication - non verbal mainly as well as internal. The universe, the god particle, the female form and how magnificent it is
How wonderful life is. When I was a boy I loved to paint and swing high on a swing feeling butterflies in my stomach. Now im a man I have other desires and my commitment and enjoyment levels are still up there, ha.
Will I ever find you here and will you notice me?
Do sapiosexuals really get fulfilled by mental stimulation? I need contact, ha ;) :p
What happened to girl meets boy, there's chemistry and they just go for it? Yum !
If a man alone deep in a forest utters some words, is he still wrong, lol? :-) Of course he is.
I love it when I login here and there's some pink msgs in my inbox, I love okc, its exciting
Don't judge my book by it's cover... some of this may be tongue in cheek and bravado, 😜
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Over work and up for a drink or a meal with friends is a good reward and to put it behind me and to unwind, laugh, ahead of the weekend with fully recharged batteries :-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I write indulgent, sensual, erotic stories. Yes, really :p I believe our brain is the most powerful sex organ and I'm fascinated by words and how they can convey feelings, emotions, desires and fantasies.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating
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p.s. I do have a valid reason why I dont have a face pic, if you ask me I will share the reason and the pic with you :)
There, all done!
Update: Guys, please respect I'm straight. I won't reply. Good luck in your search though.