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40 • Marietta, PA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–100
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 8:36am
- 5′ 3″ (1.60m)
- Body type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Other, and very serious about it
- Aries, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Has a kid
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Tagalog (Poorly)
Lately I'm on a mission to take better care of myself in all ways by being very intentional about what I put into my body and how I care for it. This often falls onto the back burner for single parents and it did for me for years. I still have a way to go in this area and I am not perfect, physically or otherwise, though I am getting stronger in all areas every day and enjoying the journey. But if you are here looking for a hot bisexual barbie doll to complete your life, I'm not that person, in any aspect.
If, however, the lack of perfection and time available doesn't frighten you off and what I've written here resonates with you, please feel free to send me a message, I'd love to hear from people who feel a genuine connection based on what they've read.
So, "about me" then...I tend to think and feel deeply, I'm open, curious, passionate and a lover of ideas. I value connections that challenge me and bring lots of new energy into my life to enrich me and perhaps draw me into new areas.
Spirituality is important to me and I identify as a pagan, though I dislike categorization in this area and just about every other. Walks in the woods, wildlife, trees, animals etc are important to me and I see other Beings as my partners and teachers while I am here.
Politically I'm far far left, fitting pretty squarely in the Anarchist "lets' start over and be good to each other" box. I am no lover of capitalism and see less hope in reform every day, though I'm still a registered Green. I'm not dogmatic about any of this and view immersion into politics personally largely as a waste. I value differences though I admit if one has far "right" politics we are likely to come to some clashes around valuing all people that will be a dealbreaker in terms of anyone I choose to be close to in my life.
I'm also a fan of the freedom of non-monogamy, at least in theory, though I also really cherish the deep, meaningful connection that monogamous or mostly monogamous relationships can provide. I'm into people who are flexible and want to explore the journey with me. Let's get to that point first and then we can talk about what that might look like over time for either or both of us. So much depends on the people involved and the dynamic, I'm not comfortable putting myself in a box on this one either.
Movies: Really not into most of the mainstream stuff; whatever I come across that elicits something in/from me, especially if it makes me think or feel in a novel way. I use my amazing friends as a touchstone here. I have a special fondness for magical realism in all realms and visual yumminess. Something like The Curse of the Cat People comes to mind. That said, Dumb and Dumber is one of my favorite movies too, so really I'm pretty wide open here.
Television: I don't have one. I can easily be persuaded to watch something sci fi/fantasy/nerdy online though. Also I occasionally selectively pick things on TV to be addicted to - most recently it was Orphan Black (BBC). I have also been informed by one of my best friends that I would like a show called Peaky Blinders. It's a drama about turn of the century violent subculture in England, complete with interestingly hot people. When he said that the creators of the show decided to only use music by Jack White and Nick Cave, I knew it was something I'd probably like. BBC 2 for interested parties.
Gaming: I'm a geek and enjoy MMORPG's when I get the chance, which lately isn't often.
Music: The Beatles, The Cult, and Megadeth are my three longstanding favorites which usually make most people groan (ha!), but I have pretty diverse tastes here. I don't like mindless pop, any country or most jazz. With those exceptions I'm probably pretty open to it. I'm listening to Beats Antique as I type this.
Food - Indian and Mexican...anything international really. American food is so disappointing. I haven't eaten any meat other than fish/seafood occasionally in over 20 years...I just don't particularly like it. I don't judge others who make different choices.
You are awake and alive and feel connected to me from what you've read. What you see is what you get. Always in search of new hearts and minds to share myself with and learn from, as long as you understand and respect my current situation and know that my 7 year-old son is my world and that I'm a creature that requires a lot of space for the time being.
I really enjoy people who know who they are and are unabashedly themselves - whatever that may mean personally for them. People who are enmeshed by societal norms, don't question things, haven't taken any real "risks" in life, are enslaved by materialistic tendencies or who aren't irredeemably silly don't tend to interest me much. I also identify as a "pansexual" (not being a fan of the gender binary), but that was not an option when I signed up so I listed myself as bisexual.
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