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42 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 32–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:45pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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My goal in life is to diversify as much as possible - City and country living, U.S. and abroad, for profit and non-profit, low and high art, sublime and ridiculous. I think of life kind of like a canvas, and I'm painting it as I go along and trying to use lots of different colors. And I'm getting there. Started my own business, have a place in the country, own part of several bar/music venues in Brooklyn, have my hands deep into some cutting edge environmental/energy efforts, give away consulting work to groups I care about, have several pet projects I'm working on. But I fight against that New York City tendency to self-absorption, and I'm eager to share the canvas with another painter who has her own set of paints and wants to add her own style, maybe even retouch or paint over some parts. I ain't the finished article, and I tend to gravitate to others who are also works in progress.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to spend more time outside the City. I have to be here some weekdays, but work allows me a lot of flexibility and I plan to use it. I'm looking for a house in lower VT or MA where I want to spend a lot of time. The things I'm most passionate about involve the woods and mountains.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Avoiding self-glorification
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't think I've ever said to anyone "Hey, what was the first thing you noticed about me?"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite movie is A Room with a View, book is the Enormous Room (however, recently in awe of Shadow Country and Angle of Repose), TV show is the Wire. My musical taste is very eclectic and I couldn't pick one thing. Half the time I listen to classical music, then a lot of Leo Kottke-type folk, early REM era rock, big Meshell Ndegeocello fan, international music, and Blitzen Trapper-ish indie pop. My current food fascination is anything involving passion fruit or green tomatillo sauce.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee, soccer ball, a good book, music, trackless wilderness
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If in New York, listening to live music or at a play. Or perhaps I'm cooking dinner for several friends. If I'm in Masschusetts I'm either visiting my friend's apple orchard or helping another one build his house in the woods.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Once opened the door on my 80-year old grandmother in the buck, getting out of the shower...god rest her soul. I'm still in recovery.
You should message me if
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You like unconventional -- settling down in the burbs is not your life plan. You like to read and talk about what you read (or see, or hear). "Thoughtful" and "engaging" are characteristics you look for and that you offer.

A note: Shirtless pics are me at my happiest, not me trying to impress anyone.

Another note: why are there so many pictures of girls with fake mustaches? Gives me the willies.